Why?
My whole day was going good til I got on the phone w/ my homegirl in Dallas. She told me why my ex-boyfriend wanted to be w/ me. Okay, here's the story...
Back in October, it was PV's homecoming and I stayed for the weekend there. I met a guy who is, or was, cool w/ her. I was supposed to stay with my play brother, but I couldn't get in contact w/ him, so I ended up stayin w/ him. Cool, right? So, eventually we hooked up about 2 months lata. Okay, 2 1/2 months down the line, I started coming to reality about things in our relationship and brought it to his attention. Right thing to do, right? Wrong! We fell out about it, and, in his eyes, "everythings is my fault", so we didn't communicate for a while. Okay, we broke up a month lata. Guess what? My homegirl told me why he wanna be with me. He told her, basically, I had "pleased" him during homecoming and he wanted to be with me so I can "do" it again. Plus, he cheated on me when we were going though our problems. And for the record, that's bullsh*t! Ain't nuthin happened, and I thought that once people hit college, we get a lil bit more mature. I see that this is just like high school/middle school and he did not grow up yet! Now, I hate him with a passion. I'm not gonna put out no names b/c I'm betta than that, but I am gonna say this:
Fellas, and ladies, leave the high school/middle school games and mess there. Don't bring that to college b/c ur gonna look like a fool, period. Do something better w/ ur life, like get your education, get in an organization, something like that! Me, personally, I don't have time for that and if you are to come up to me w/ that, ya feelings gonna be hurt!
Back in October, it was PV's homecoming and I stayed for the weekend there. I met a guy who is, or was, cool w/ her. I was supposed to stay with my play brother, but I couldn't get in contact w/ him, so I ended up stayin w/ him. Cool, right? So, eventually we hooked up about 2 months lata. Okay, 2 1/2 months down the line, I started coming to reality about things in our relationship and brought it to his attention. Right thing to do, right? Wrong! We fell out about it, and, in his eyes, "everythings is my fault", so we didn't communicate for a while. Okay, we broke up a month lata. Guess what? My homegirl told me why he wanna be with me. He told her, basically, I had "pleased" him during homecoming and he wanted to be with me so I can "do" it again. Plus, he cheated on me when we were going though our problems. And for the record, that's bullsh*t! Ain't nuthin happened, and I thought that once people hit college, we get a lil bit more mature. I see that this is just like high school/middle school and he did not grow up yet! Now, I hate him with a passion. I'm not gonna put out no names b/c I'm betta than that, but I am gonna say this:
Fellas, and ladies, leave the high school/middle school games and mess there. Don't bring that to college b/c ur gonna look like a fool, period. Do something better w/ ur life, like get your education, get in an organization, something like that! Me, personally, I don't have time for that and if you are to come up to me w/ that, ya feelings gonna be hurt!
LMAO abotu the part about gettin mature just cuz you're in college. shyt I wish no most of them never grow up. Don't hate him Forgive him and move on. You can't hold stuff like that in your heart cuz it will eat you alive. And everytime u think about it it's going to piss u off. Let it go, pray for them and get on with your life. You can't force anyone to grow up they gotta do it on their on. I learned the hard way with my ex.... Okay Girl. Be good. Take Care