Have you ever been the "other" woman or man?

Why do we feel that money or material things determine our being?

I have been the other woman, but I was very young and searching for my father through the men i met.
I could never fine any part of him
in none of the men i looked for, I didn't have what it takes to chose one, now I know only God can chose the right one, we are not qualified.
christa

I have been the other woman, with the man I was engaged to years ago. When I was at a financial low in my life, he was there to assist me until I got back on my feet. Unfortunately, because of our past relationship, it wasn't long before I found myself "caught up". But I knew I had to detach myself from him and our situation. I now have GOD in my life, and GOD has blessed me with a truly wonderful man--a "Rare Brother"--who respects and loves me.

This situation is an act of growing up, something that I'am not proud of and an event that I willn't repeat.

Yes and I wish I would have never got involve. In the end you are the one that is the Fool.

Yes, I have been the other woman and the man went crazy wen I tried to leave him. Thank God "she" got a new assignment in DC. Don't be the other woman, it is not worth the grief.

As the votes show, most of us has been there. For me, it was a matter of knowing after the the fact. After the romance, lovemaking, dining, etc. Let's just say, "everything must come to an end". I have been on both sides of the spectrum.

I have had two women at the same time and both were pregnant and had the child a year apart, so I know that I have been unfaithfull however I don't know if I was ever the other man, I;m pretty sure I was because women are much clever then men when it comes to cheating

It hurts very much

It's something you never want to go through, trust me. E.C.