One Dirty Brotha

Ladies, is it me or are there no good men left in tha world? Let me share my story with you. Last year in August I decided to talk to a guy that had been tryin to holla at me for a while. He was the perfect gentleman. He would come by my house, cook for me, give me massages, and take me out places. He has a child and I did not have a problem with that cuz I have a daughter to. Everything was going good until his baby's momma called me. First of all, she cursed me out and told me that he was still her man and that he would not, and I quote this, " be able to buy your p***y any more after our child gets here."( I am not making this up yall) I was like " child, what child." Turns out, this guy had a second child that was due in December. He didn't even tell me about this because he said " I didn't know if it was mines."That should have been a red flag but, me being the dummie I was I let it slide. I even went and picked him up from her house after she beat him up when he came by to see the kids. Now, I am about to skip ahead a few months to May 2005. Yes, I stayed that long because I thought I was in LOVE. This dirty brotha invited that crazy woman, aka his baby's momma, to his sisters wedding. He knew she was gonna act a fool cuz she had never seen me before. And as I predicted she acted a fool. But, not in the crazy, ghetto way, she tried to play it of and act nice with it. When he introduced us she smiled and said," Oh, so you're his lil girlfriend. He told me this weekend that yall broke up." This heffa even grabbed my baby out of my hands, and in the process, spilled purple soda on my baby's dress. I felt like I was in the freakin twilight zone. As you can imagine, after the wedding me and him got into a huge argument.Needless to say, me and tha brotha do not talk any more. I tried to make it work, but I found out that I can do bad by myself. So ladies, please learn from my mistake. And if there are any good men left, please hit me up.