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Okay gurl, I'll tell you what my mother told me, "Why will he buy the cow if he can get the cow for free." In other words don't give yourself to just any sweet talker, look at the situation like this, do you see being with this person just a short time or a long time, do you love this person because how he makes you feel in your heart or some where else. See as a young black woman you need to know that when you find that right one he is not just gonna want to beat, but want to get to know you on a whole new level. Like everyone else said its your decisions you have to do what's right for you. Be careful and remember that what you have is precious and don't let anyone tell you different. Whatever decision you make will be the right decision for you.
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Tell him the truth. I know it's hard to be honest with yourself and others about your feelings sometimes, but you don't want to be stuck in a relationship when you really don't want to be. But, if by chance nature takes its course and you two get together, then that's cool. But you have to tell him HONESTLY whether or not you want to be more than friends.