Dilemma

Man, oh man...I have a situation. I have a great guy in my life, but lately it's been kind of rough because we aren't able to communicate as much. He's in Houston, I'm in Baton Rouge, this amazing guy is in Baton Rouge. It wouldn't be as bad, but I had a lil' visual crush on the other guy. We know some of the same people and everything. It just so happens that we had the opportunity to spend some time getting to know each other after lunch Tues. and had a great time. He told me I was beautiful, and what girl doesn't like to hear that? I, however, did tell him Wed. that I dont want him to get interested in me b/c I have a guy already. I really feel like I'm having a "Next Lifetime" moment; I feel ya Eryka! My roomies and I are going to have a Black Crush Night for all of the dark guys we have been giving the eye all year, and guess what...he's one of the guys. He said he will come, but I'm not telling him exactly what's going to happen. I feel stuck, but I have been trying to get some Holy guidance from my Heavenly Father...hey, next lifetime may end up being this lifetime, but I know I dont think I want it to be! Hellllp...anyone have input?