what should i do
could somebody tell me why most males these days act they way the do? ive talk to males that are my age or 2 or three years older than me and its all the same. when im ready to b in a relationship and accept a person for who they are and have a talk with them so we have an understasding that isnt good enough. the boy i use to be with cheated on me and then we broke up. we have been broken up for almost two years and he just cant let go. i was part of the p roblem and i would still talk to him and try to get back with him but then i realized that i was too good for him because i gabe him plenty of time to change and he just wont. i told him i cant b with someone that lies for no reason. now that he found out im goin away to school and im on my road to success he wants to be in my face all the time. why is when u are not interest in someone at all they for some reason wanna cry to u and explain how mush in love with u they are and how they miss u? i use to feel bad because we were together for 3 years off and on and becuz i still loved him. i try to date other people and get over him but part of me still want to give him chance. but i know i dont want to go away and try to have a long distance relationship. i kno that im able to do but i know that he wouldnt b able to handle it because hes very jealous. what should i do?
I think this happens to all females everywhere. The meet a guy and things are great for the first few months, then he starts to show his ass. And we never expect it because we always think this one "is different". Like the comment before mine, men don't usually mature until about 30ish, and even then there's still alot of work to be done.
However, if you really want to get rid of this guy there's an age old solution. (Unless he's the stalker type in which cause deperate actions need to be taken). Tell him that you want to get married. Yeah that right girl drop the "M" word and I bet you within the span of two weeks he'll disappear.
Or, if you're not into the dramatic, you could simply ignore him. Pretend like you don't see him, you can't hear him, all of that eventually he'll get the point.
Good Luck!