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Relationship Tips for my Sisters(31-40)

VICSKEYAS MOORE · Friday, April 21st 2006 at 8:36AM · 200 views
We are half way there...... here is 31-40!

31) Don't EVER make him feel that he is more important than you are.... even if he has more education or in a better job.

32) Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

33) Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't have you!

34) Don't compete with other women, but be aware that men are attracted to what they see.

35) If you think he is cheating, he probably is. Confront him right away and if you feel he is lying, let him go.(Don't be Paranoid!)

36) Actions speak louder than words.

37) Never let a man define who you are.

38) Never rely on a man for compliments, look to yourself for that.

39) Never borrow someone else' man.

40) If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.



Be blessed.

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Comments (4)

WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III Friday, April 21st 2006 at 12:21PM

Glad to see the continuance of posting knowledge for those that will use it to fit where they fit in.
Peace

B. Dwight Foster, B.A., MS-MANAGEMENT Sunday, April 23rd 2006 at 8:09PM

your list needs some refinement...i see i need to start posting up an answer to your stuff...cuz you can get a lil dear abbyish...lol....

B. Dwight Foster, B.A., MS-MANAGEMENT Sunday, April 23rd 2006 at 8:23PM

I have an age old quesiton that Men and Women all over the world have been writing me and asking me and I feel like *i want to be a millionaire* so I asked for a 'life line': ergo, i have decided to ask HBCU Connect-don't mess my s***** up yall...by giving me the wrong answer-and before some Summa Cum Laude tell me this question is unanswerable and that Solomon himself would have yield the kingdom trying to answer it, well men and women still have been wanting an answer, well, since the stone ages:

Is eatin cheatin, if there is no ring to bling?

I would agree that making a cuckold out of a man-to borrow from Shakespeare's Richard III is a shameful act, but if you are not married-hold on yall..this is a fair question...geeze everybody goin' to respond to this one I see...now, call me a CAD a BOOR even, hey any compliment is a good one...lol...but all jokes aside when you speak to this be sure to note that I said in marriage I can understand not sharing your wares with someone else ( i get one point for this)...but if it ain't your husband's coochie you giving away then why can't you, with in the confines of safe s*x-have thugged out s*x!

Dwight
P.S. i probably should write for Maxim magazine! its these random tangents yall...purely random i fu****** swear...

VICSKEYAS MOORE Monday, April 24th 2006 at 10:04AM

Mr. Foster......I understand where you are coming from...if you are not married, then would it be cheating......I say yes. The reason I say yes is because when a commitment is made(not a booty call), then it should be honored. For instance, if you and I were in a committed relationship and we decided that we would have an exclusive relationship then we should each respect the commitment. Now marriage is a much greater commitment than a relationship, but when you give your word to someone else who is depending on you, you should keep it. In essence I am speaking of integrity. Now if there is no commitment whatsoever, then I understand where you are coming(I don't agree) but I understand! Thanks for your comment.

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