Update On Ya Girl!!!
Okay so I took a lot of ya'll advice and just basically kept talkin to him. It hasn't even been a whole day and so far his "ex" has come up to my job and tried to fight me, I have three or four females calling playin on my phone(don't know how they even got tha number), and he's acting like he don't know nothing about nothing. When I ask him about all this stuff his answer is that he don't know why I can't just trust him and if I don't believe him then he don't owe me no explanation. All his n*ggas is tellin him that he is doing me dirtball and they all on my side but he just don't care. Then somebody told him that I was talkin to somebody else and this n*gga just snapped! I just don't understand why he can do what he do but when I try ta move on then he gets mad. Are all dudes like this? They can dish it out but they can't take it? Help me out!
Hey gurl....... I feel that you should just cut all ties with him. Recently the love of my life and I broke up. While he was back home on vacation he acted all funny and triflin ( most of the time) ... now that he's gone again I keep gettin the phone calls and text messaging proclaiming his love for me. In the end i realized that if I keep taking him back he's going to keep doing it knowing that I ain't goin no-where. I love him but it has to stop. I deserve betta and so do you and any other female in a similar predicament. Hope this helps you out some.