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What's A Girl To Do?

What's A Girl To Do?

Danielle Davenport · Tuesday, January 31st 2006 at 10:08AM · 412 views
Okay basically I'm like a lot of girls on here and need advice about a guy. We talked for like 8 months and during this time it was basically a whole lot of drama. I got jumped by his ex-girlfriend(well she was supposed to be), got into a lot of other little minor arguements with other females, and he basically just did me straight dirty. Well we hadn't talked for like a year and all of a sudden he asks my best friend for my cell phone number and he starts calling me. Now my head was saying "I hate you so much right now!" but my heart was like "Can I come over?" He apologized for everything that happened and told me that I was who he should've been with and that he's grown up and more mature. So what should I do? Should I get back with him or should I leave the past in the past?

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Vonnie Turner Tuesday, January 31st 2006 at 10:34AM

Hey gurl...... It seems as though he messed up big time. In my opinion he doesn't deserve a second chance, but it's up to you. Just think about the pros and cons of the situation. Recently my boyfriend of about a year and I broke up. I truly love him but I realized that with the distance and different career goals we will be better off as friends. Myabe you and this guy should from a friendship bond before getting back in a heavy relationship. I wigh the best for you.

COUNTRI BOI Tuesday, January 31st 2006 at 12:03PM

Totally agree with Alexander

Candace Williams Tuesday, January 31st 2006 at 9:25PM

I'm new here and you blog has interested me the most of all. I feel that you should think about the possiblities and the outcomes of getting back with this man who did you so wrong. Do you really still care about this man the same way you did a year ago? And what is going to benefit you out of the relationship after everything you went through with him and a supposedly ex girlfriend? is it really worth it? Me, personally, I believe in giving everyone a second chance to certain extent and that honey is enough extent for me. Holla!

WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III Wednesday, February 1st 2006 at 7:52AM

Ask Jeremiah 33:3 and 6.
Use Your common sense You have been Blessed with Sis.
Answers and not doing means never seeking in the 1st place respectfully.
I hope You feel where I am coming from. I have been there and done that.
Nothing is happening to You that the person is not allowing in the 1st place.
Peace.

WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III Wednesday, February 1st 2006 at 7:53AM

P.S. I commend Your boldness to share a common experience.
Hope to see You write more.

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