How Ladies Survive
I know so many people who have boyfriends/girlfriends for years and then go to college and are faced with a decision on whether or not to break up. I don't know about any other girl, but I'd rather not put a strain on my head by trying to keep a man thats almost 1,000 miles away from me. Guys have needs, just like girls do - and those needs just can't be satisifed over the phone. I don't think I can continuously remind myself not to flirt with somebody, or to watch how close me and another man gets all because I have somebody "waiting for me at home". Thats ridiculous - home is four states away, the only thing waiting on you is an agruement about why you didn't find the time to call, or why you can't come home for a weekend and visit. As far as I'm concerned, in terms of my current relationship, I don't plan to keep the relationship going past August. He may not know that right now, but I'm sure MY boyfriend will understand and respect that. I just want to know, from you 'dedicated' men and women who are 'faithful' to your significant others that are miles away --- how do you do it?
I feel what you saying 1000% but I feel like this. If you with your boo for a long period of time for example or whatever the case. If you both care for each other and think it can work out into something more than a bf/gf thing, then I think you should stick it through. It's all about compromise. Ya'll should try to see each other at least every other weekend and if that don't work, just dead it.
I was in a long distant relationship and my bf was not compromising because I would go and see him and he would never even try to come and see me so I had to drop him real quick. Plus, I don't trust dem little skeet skeets that be around him and I rather not being together than having to knock a b*tch the f*uck out and go to jail. That's how I see it, "To each his own"