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Feeling Neglected...

Amecia Nichell · Thursday, December 1st 2005 at 1:44AM · 110 views
My boyfriend recently got a new job- he works from 6 a.m to 6 p,m, monday through saturday. Obviously, he sleeps a lot- I mean a lot. I understand that he's tired from work, but we don't talk like we used to. It's gotten to the point where sometimes we don't talk for over three days. I've tried to explain to him that us not speaking for such long spans of times bothers me, but he doesn't understand. I think about him all of the time, but I feel like he doesn't feel the same way about me. I mean, if you miss someone, you call and talk to them or visit them. So if he goes for four days without picking up a phone, does he really miss me? He tells me he cares about me, and I believe him, but sometimes i feel unappreciated. We recently had a big arument about this- our first fight, to be honest. He told me that he honestly is just dog tired when he gets off work and he falls out. Is this going to be the one thing that will irritate me in our relationship, or should I try harder to get my point across? Help me out yall!

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Amecia Nichell Detroit Metro, MI

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Darryl D. Smith Thursday, December 1st 2005 at 9:20AM

Hmmm...honestly...if he missed you, he'd call you no matter what. He'd sneak off somewhere during his break and call you just to say hey. Then again...he could be dog tired. I know sometimes I don't feel like callin my moms after a long day...but then again I call her. Aye...this is confusing. Just do what your heart says. I can't make that decision for you...

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Monica Brown Thursday, December 1st 2005 at 11:31AM

12 hours per day for 6 days per week is a total of 72 hours. Wow!!! That's a lot of working. Time is important in a relationship. Just promise yourself that you will just end it before seeking time from someone else. You don't want to get yourself into a situation.

Mama Mo

Jaquela Joiner Friday, December 2nd 2005 at 9:27AM

Im sorry gurl but thats going to have be that one thing that irritates you in the realtionship that you go along with. Its cool to express your feelings about the situation but be honest, do u really prefer he NOT work? I dont think so.....but the issue with him not picking up the phone....is another story....

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