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How do I handle this?

Ashley Martino · Friday, August 26th 2005 at 9:35AM · 517 views
I am a freshman in college, I have a boyfriend who I've been involved with for two years now. But, since I've been here at FAMU I've had my eye on this one guy. Every where I go he's there, I even saw him in the club and my homegirl pushed me into him. He grabed my hand until I was out of reach. I know he knows I like him---but how do I handle this?

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Ashley Martino Daytona Beach, FL

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Alise P. Friday, August 26th 2005 at 11:00AM

Hey lil one.. Watch the men at FAMU.. trust me I know everything aint what it seems. Chances are if he's not a freshmen I might know who he is. Everyone in the band knows damn near everyone in the school. ANd Im in the band. Just be careful. But if you have a boyfriend then you already know the right thing to do in your heart. Take care

Edward Garrett Friday, August 26th 2005 at 1:20PM

Check this out Young Lady, going to a black college is very hard for us young African-Americans, and the temptation toll is on ht e rise and increasing everyday. You feel me. That ain't noone but the devil trying to destroy what God have in store for you. Pray about it. And my advice to your homegirl that pushed you into the dude, you need to let her be because if she was your "FRIEND" she wouldn't do no trifling stuff like that. If your boyfriend is not on the same campus as you, nor if he is in the same state as you, stay in efficient contact with him, whether it is by phone, email, by writing, hell, by pigeons /just joking :-) /. But you are now a grown woman and you know what your heart is telling you. But first stay focused on your education and future, because you can proceed in life by yourself with the help of the Lord. Ya' dig.
This is E.D.G. III reporting out from Texas Southern Unviversity.

Darryl D. Smith Friday, August 26th 2005 at 2:59PM

I would have to say, you need to check yourself. See if you want to stay together with your boyfriend. If you do, then you need to leave this guy alone. It's cool to like him, but don't be trying to get with him, you know. Just stay with the one you already know. You could just be his friend, so if you and your boyfriend break up, you'll already know the other dude well enough. Also, it's temptation you're feeling. Don't start sleeping around, because you'll keep doing it...

Ebony Howard Friday, August 26th 2005 at 3:26PM

Idf you love him dat much then u wont be eyein other n*ggas......Some people start wanting new things....but that new thing might not be what you expected......Sometime what u already have is whats best for......but stay tru to yaself......cuz you kno all most n*ggas want is some @$ $........

MATTHEW GRIFFIN Saturday, August 27th 2005 at 4:16PM

GO FOR WHAT U KNOW! YOU HAVE TO EXPERIMENT IN LIFE. I DON'T THINK A HIGH SCHOOL RELATIONSHIP IS GOING TO LAST THROUGH COLLEGE ANYWAY. THERE ARE TO MANY PEOPLE IN THE WORLD, AND YOU CAN'T POSSIBLY BE IN LOVE LIKE YOU THINK YOU ARE. IN HIGH SHCOOL U HAVE A CHOICE OF GUYS TO PICK FROM, BUT WHEN U GET OUT ON YOUR OWN AND START TRAVELLING YOU SEE THAT THERE IS MORE OUT THERE THAN U HAVE EVER KNOWN EXSISTED. I SAY GO FOR THE GUY AND WORRY ABOUT A RELATIONSHIP LATER. UNLESS YOU PLAN ON GETTING MARRIED TO THIS GUY? ;o)

WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III Tuesday, January 17th 2006 at 3:14PM

Honesty, integrity, etc. Be real.

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