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Happiness

Rosina Ezell · Monday, July 25th 2005 at 2:49AM · 108 views
I have a friend that's been going with her boyfriend for a couple of years, but it seems like she's not happy. He does little things to try to get on her nerves. He will do things that he knows that he would be mad at her about if she did them. She's not going to say that she's not happy. But, lately I can really see that it's getting to her. I try to be there for her as much as I can, to help her deal with it, but it's only so much that I can do. What should I tell her? I don't want her to end their relationship, I just want her to be happy. She always helps me. He's changed a lot, and fast.

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Rosina Ezell Warner Robins, GA

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Geronimo Pratt Monday, July 25th 2005 at 5:42AM

She's not happy because she's not happy AT ALL. She's not happy with him or the relationship. The last thing someone in a long-term relationship wants someone else to know, is that they're not happy. Things are always suga' sweet when we jump-start a new relationship, because we're young and that's how it's supposed to be. Maybe she should see the relationship for how sour it's went and carry-on with life. Because right now she seems like a puppet on his strings, ya feel me? She's young 18, 19, 20, 21? Whatever. She shouldn't have changed so quick because she's being weighed down by a relationship. You as a friend should give her the word like a friend does... Nothin' but the Cold, Hard, TRUTH! Tell her she changed. That's it. Tell her she's changed. Let her know that if nobody else wants her happy... YOU, WANT HER HAPPY, ya heard me? Holla back and tell me what you think about that comment?

Bobby Lucas Monday, July 25th 2005 at 10:30AM

well first of all, if he is doing things that he know that will make hermad and get on her nerves, sumthin is wrong. from what i c, he migh not have what it takes to break up with her so so hes going to stay with her and do what he wants to do. now if he really cares about her at all and loves her, he would change for her and thats that, but they migh have some how in the relationship changed together in ways that they were blinded and couldnt tell they have changed, and little by little they are noticing the changes, and they are not liking it. the best thing for them to do is either have a long talk about what they dont like about each other that changed so they can see what they can do about it. or just break up and live and learn more about different relationships. well this is Bobby Lucas and im out. i wish them happiness

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