SOLVED
Well, for those of you who read Dilemma, the problem has been solved for a while. I trusted my instincts and God, and now I'm with my future husband. God is too good, and He works in strange ways. Adam is a great person and a blessed individual. I am in love, and even though we go through sticky situations like all couples do, I know this relationship is a lifelong blessing. I know I will have to watch out though cuz my man is fine and talented. I never wanted such a handsome brother cause I knew other women would hate and try to take him, but I'm too glad because we are building a strong foundation. In my case, the grass was much greener on the other side!
most people will say that you wont be with him , but thats not the case. I find myself being in the same senerio.And when your parents say that you know you will be with that person till the end its true. my boyfriend and I have only been together for a year and one month , we have had ups and downs. That doesnt mean give up. It was fate that we came into each others lives. and dont worry about other women TRYING to take your man , you got this. and you want a fine man by your side dont settle for the un-attractive men you wont be happy.Im happy for you and your Guy u guys will make it . Peace... Saffiyah