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Relationship Issue

Amecia Nichell · Tuesday, July 19th 2005 at 9:17PM · 81 views
Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend since May and we have a pretty good relationship. The problem is I'm leaving Michigan to go to South Carolina State for school. II don't really want to end our relationship, but I'm not sure how to keep our relationship strong over such a far distance.So, should I break up with him or try the long distance relationship? Ladies, fellas, I can use advice from anyone.

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Darryl Fancher Wednesday, July 20th 2005 at 1:41AM

You should dump him and come to me. LOL just kidding. I did it for a little while, she was in atlanta and I was in alabama for school. I know the distance isnt as much as yours but it was distance none the less. The question really is for you to answer. Do you think he is worth it? I thought my girl was worth it so I did whatever I could to make it work. And trust me you will be tempted to end your relationship probably on a daily basis but trust me if u decide he is worth it and that he is goin to do right (very important) then when u do see him it will make those moments extra special.

Coreen Simpson Wednesday, July 20th 2005 at 10:13AM

Girl I am goin throught the same problem right now. I just started goint out wit my boyfriend like 2 months ago and I do not know wat to do. But I really like him, but I want to experience college with no body holding me back home. I say just give it a chance. And if it is to much then break up with him and tell him its the distance and it is not him. It aint like yall are married.

LaShonda Redd Wednesday, July 20th 2005 at 11:59AM

A relationship is a two person thing. If you dont feel your going to be gving your 50% of the bargin than you should let it go. Like it was said you will meet a bunch of new people and some of them will be guys. It all depends on your self control if you can with hold not having someone next to you at all times then go ahead if not then maybe starting school off single would be for the best. Whatever your decision is makes sure you know its coming from the heart. If you really are feeling this guy stay and work it out and if it seems like a hassle to keep the relationship going then go to school and be you.
Im out
Shonda

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