Why are females so confusing.
Well I have a problem. I am completely lost on this situation. Ok I have an ex girlfriend whom I have been broken up with since like October. She still lives in alabama and I am now in South Carolina getting ready to play baseball for Benedict. But anways for the longest I have been tryin to get back with her ok she told me that she didnt want nothin to do with me anymore or whatever, but we all know im moving, ok she tells me that she is goin to come visit me sometimes, and that she is goin to put money in my bank account from time to time what does that sound like to u guys.
Then a few weeks later this happened.ok she was at my house a few weeks ago cuz her and her step father got into it, so i brought her here and my folks were out of town so it was just me and her, she takes a shower and goes into my room and finds a picture of a female which is my cousin, she doesnt ask me nothin she just assumes its a female im talkin to so she goes crazy and tears up all the pictures of her (herself) that i had in my room and calls her friends and tells my business without even askin me who the picture was of, but she says she can care less what im doin, and her excuse was that cuz i didnt tell her about the girl.
I know this is kinda long, but im completely lost and dont really know how to handle the situation because I really want to spend the rest of my life with her, we been through alot, but I also dont want to be made a fool out of.
Then a few weeks later this happened.ok she was at my house a few weeks ago cuz her and her step father got into it, so i brought her here and my folks were out of town so it was just me and her, she takes a shower and goes into my room and finds a picture of a female which is my cousin, she doesnt ask me nothin she just assumes its a female im talkin to so she goes crazy and tears up all the pictures of her (herself) that i had in my room and calls her friends and tells my business without even askin me who the picture was of, but she says she can care less what im doin, and her excuse was that cuz i didnt tell her about the girl.
I know this is kinda long, but im completely lost and dont really know how to handle the situation because I really want to spend the rest of my life with her, we been through alot, but I also dont want to be made a fool out of.
For her to get mad like that it obviously tells you that she still has feeling for you. People that dont "want nothing to do with you" wouldn't react that way. I dont want to give you false hope but it seems like ya'll still have some things to work out. You still having hidden feelings for her isn't going to help because you haven't told her about it. Sit her down and ask her if there is anything that can be worked out in the situation and if it cant you have try your best to let go. If it was meant to be then it was meant to be. You cant force something that doesn't want to be forced. Relationships isn't meant to be forced. Im hope this helps
Im out
Shonda