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What's up Fam, It is interesting how when you first meet someone...how much of an interest they take in you. It seems that every fiber of their being is consumed with getting to know you and gettin

What's up Fam, Have you ever given up something that has become so normal to your everyday life? Some people give up food, watching TV , or talking on the phone. Some people may give up going to th

What's up Fam? Okay so my pastor has been focusing on a new subject in church...'Your Words Control Your Destiny'. Now excuse me if I get too deep, but this is important, especially for those of yo

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Okay.....so when I was in undergrad, I made fun of all of my friends for picking out their engagement rings or rather designing them on adiamondisforever.com. Probably about a year ago, I designed my

Why is it that when you end a relationship with a guy, they don't seem to get it....... Let me fill you in. I dated this guy for six months. He disrespected my mom and instead of apologizing and getti

Recently I have been watching Oprah Winfrey. Now Oprah have excellent shows, but lately she has hit the nail on the head. Last week, she had women on the show who felt bad about their self-image. Now

We are almost to 80! I hope this will bless someone. 61) If you wouldn't allow your daughter to be with him, you shouldn't. 62) Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

Every afternoon on my way home from work, I listen to The Michael Baisden show on 103.5 in Memphis, TN. Now for those of you who are familiar with the nationally syndicated show, topics in all areas o

51) You need time to heal between relationships....there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. 52) You should never look for someone to COMPLETE

One of my Hbcuconnect friends asked me to write a blog on mother/daughter relationships....so this blog is dedicated to you. Mothers and daughters are special creatures. It is interesting because

41) Just because he says he loves you, doesn't mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean that you ar emeant to be with him. 42) To use painful hard-won wisdom-'get it right' the next time.

If you all remember a past blog that I posted called "Getting Rid of Unhealthy Baggage"...this situation stems from that. Forgiveness has been a big issue that I have had to deal with for sometime.

We are half way there...... here is 31-40! 31) Don't EVER make him feel that he is more important than you are.... even if he has more education or in a better job. 32) Do not make him into a qu

Okay, Okay...so I have not posted anything lately.....I have been off work for a few days. Here are 21-30...... 21) Always have your own set of friends. 22) Maintain boundaries in how a guy tre

Alright ya'll here is 11-20. I hope it will bless you!!!! 11) Don't settle. 12) If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. 13) If he keeps changing his mind about the r

Okay...so we all have at one time had relationship problems or are experiencing them at this time. There are 80 relationship tips that I would like to share(my friend sent this to me last year)....but

I really like this site. I have been able to see others views and also the different stands that you have taken for what you believe. I commend so many of you on what you write about, even if I don't

Calloway Blasts BET Music Videos 04/02/2006 12:52 PM, AP The former co-host of BET's popular "106 & Park" show blasts what he calls the destructive messages of many of the show's most popular

One of my favorite movies would have to be the Best Man. I remember how Morris Chestnut's character was very proud of his fiancee because he thought that she was perfect woman because he thought that

Okay, before we get bent out of shape over this title....let me just say that this is an article a friend of mine sent me from the Washington Post. It is long, but I think that it is worth the read. I

Okay, I am sharing this because it is truly hard for me right now. I have decided to become celibant..............now before I go on, I know that fornication is a sin before God, but that was only one