25 THINGS A SISTA SHOULD NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR...
1. )Never apologize for
pursuing what makes you happy. Even if you need to quit your job,
transfer
schools, or move across country, always do what you really want.
2. Never apologize for using proper English. Keeping it real doesn't
mean
speaking Ebonics.
3. Never apologize for giving your best in a relationship that just
didn't
work out.
4. Never apologize for being successful. Only haters want to keep you
at
their level.
5. Never apologize for crying. Wear waterproof mascara and express
yourself.
6. Never apologize for ten pounds you need to lose. People who truly
care
about you will accept you as you are.
7. Never apologize for
being
frugal. Just because you save your money instead of blowing it on the
latest fashion emergency doesn't mean you're cheap.
8.Don't apologize for being a single Mom. Babies are a blessing.
9. Never apologize for treating yourself to something special.
Sometimes
you have to show yourself some appreciation.
10. Never apologize for leaving an abusive relationship. Your safety
should always be a priority.
11.Never apologize for
keeping the ring even if you did not get married.
12. Never apologize for setting high standards in a relationship. You
know
what you can tolerate and what simply gets on your nerves.
13. Never apologize for saying NO.
14. Never apologize for asking for what you want in bed. If you don't,
then who will?
15.Never apologize for
wearing a weave or braids. You bought it so it's yours.
16. Never apologize to your new friends about old friends. There's a
reason she's been your girl from day one.
17. Never apologize for ordering dessert or more than one dessert.
18. Never apologize for dating outside your race. Just because you
found
Mr. Right across the color line doesn't mean you don't love your
brothas.
19. Never apologize for demanding respect. You are to always be
treated
as a queen.
20.Never apologize for
not
knowing how to cook. Even if you can't burn like Grandma you know how
to
order good take out. (Right Girl!)
21. Never apologize for your taste in clothes. It's your style.
22. Never apologize for changing your mind, it is your prerogative.
23. Never apologize for making a decision from your heart, even if
others
don't agree. You have to live with the consequences not them.
24. Never apologize for making more money than your man, you work hard and
you
deserve to get paid.
25. Never apologize for being you!
To all my sista's
single, married, or otherwise.
From Tressia
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Thursday, June 2nd 2005 at 12:17PM
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