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Is It Cool? Relationships- Part 2 (985 hits)

Is It Cool? Relationships- Part 2

Is it cool for you to ever tell a “ white lie” to your mate in order to protect their feelings? If yes, what would you lie about?

Is it cool for you to tell your best friend everything, the good, bad, and the ugly about your relationship with your mate?

Is it cool for you to invite a complete stranger over to join you and your date for dinner if you see that they are riding solo and they seem lonely?

Is it cool for you to still wear gifts from an ex. girl/ boyfriend, even if you are in a new relationship?

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Posted By: Jehan Bunch
Tuesday, January 23rd 2007 at 10:25AM
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i dnt think its good to tell any lie because eventualy its going to come out and it might hurt them worser then u thought it would have before
Monday, January 29th 2007 at 5:45PM
erica Truitt

Is it cool for you to ever tell a “ white lie” to your mate in order to protect their feelings? If yes, what would you lie about?

One of the components to effective relationships is TRUST. Once you and your mate establish a “Trust Factor,”- what each individual needs to feel Trust, you can then navigate what will develop your relationship or destroy your relationship.

Is it cool for you to tell your best friend everything, the good, bad, and the ugly about your relationship with your mate?

A relationship is a very intimate dynamic. Full disclosure should be left for your significant other to establish “candid connection.” Sharing all intimate situations about your relationship can cause external parties to lose respect for your UNION. YOU DON’T WANT THAT.

Is it cool for you to invite a complete stranger over to join you and your date for dinner if you see that they are riding solo and they seem lonely?

“Get it how ya’ll live,” Colloquial speech- If that’s what you and your mate want to do!

Is it cool for you to still wear gifts from an ex. girl/ boyfriend, even if you are in a new relationship?

When we let old EMOTIONS resonate in new situations, that’s when it becomes unhealthy.

Globally yours,

Dr. DAB
“HBCU CONNECT’s Clinical Blogist”
Define yourself, believe in yourself, and SUCCEED!

Wednesday, January 31st 2007 at 11:07AM
Dr. DAB

well basically all of these things are true i must say ...except keeping things from your ex im sure your new lover wouldnt want to see what your ex got you and plus i wouldnt want to have anything to make him think about me!!!!
Tuesday, February 6th 2007 at 3:13PM
Amanda Davis