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You Know, It’s Hard Out Here For A (Anti-) Pimp! (2664 hits)



by Anthony Assadulah Samad

I don’t know about you, but the shock I feel for the Oscar awarded to Three 6 Mafia for best original song is not one of joy over how that could happen. It was more a shock of pain as to why this would happen. Why would, of all the movies that were created in 2005, and all the songs and soundtracks that came out in 2005, that the only one that the Academy could identify is “It’s Hard Out Here For A Pimp.” Certainly, hip hop is the major music genre of the day and deserves its long over due “day in the sun.” But this is not about the genre or the makers of the song. This is about another opportunity to misrepresent the context of African American life within a small subset of negative imagery that will last lifetimes.

There is nothing original about “pimping” or songs about pimping. But the “pimp mentality” only survives through the “black prism” by which the world sees this sub-culture as pervasive or a mainstream element in everyday black life. Black children and young adults have a hard enough time finding positive images to aspire to without having the destructive ones constantly pounded into their heads. And no matter how much we try to counteract the negative imagery with positive ones—no matter how much we try to negate the pimp mentality with more constructive images of black life beyond the street life (and there is successful back life beyond the hood—athletes and entertainers manage to find once they succeed)—thuggery and pimpin’ seem to be revived in the media, and now celebrated as an “original” contribution of the highest ilk, in the most recognized artistry award ceremony in the world. They must’ve forgot about “Superfly.” But there is a deeper piece here, one that gives you that sinking feeling that another cruel joke has been played on Black America, on national television, when a song with a subject that most of us don’t even relate to—somehow gets to be the mantra for creative artistry in a movie. It’s hard out here for those of us who are trying to reverse the deconstruction of the black male image as violent, overs*xed and maniacal when the only thing America is willing to show is black men as unemployed loafers, gangstas, jailbirds, hustlers, over feminine (flamingly) gays and, of course, their favorite, as pimps.

Beyond the other negative images, the pimp is worse than them all because his existence relies on the exploitation and degeneration of women. Pimps are what some young men aspire to be, and pimping is a predator mindset that allows a leech of a person (the pimp) to live off its host (the women who he transforms into a prostitutes). In a time when the biggest issue in the black male/female relationship is trust issues over finances, the seed is always planted that any assistance to her man can easily be translating into some kind of pimping arrangement—breeding even a greater distrust and greater estrangement among segments of the black community that are co-dependent on each other in helping change the state of black community reality. The very interjection of the pimp mentality signals the desire to exploit in ways that leaves the exploiter and exploited victim, the pimp in their inability to sustain beyond devaluing another person to survive and the ***** imprisoned in their own absence of self-esteem that doesn’t allow them to rise beyond serving the exploiter. Meanwhile, we are never able to really discuss the ways our communities are really “pimped” (exploited) by those who rob of the means to self-sustain and flourish. We can only discuss how we step on each other to rise (bangin’, slangin’, hoe-ing, druggin’) and the pimp never looks at the trail of destruction they leave behind. Just their own glorification, as temporary as it is.

No other community allows the most negative of their cultural reality to be glorified in the way African Americans feed this pimp mentality. Let’s take the white gay male mentality as a comparison. Every one thought Brokeback Mountain was going to be the runaway winner at the Oscars this year. But white America was not quite ready to embrace the imagery of two gay cowboys along side the country’s long fashioned fascination with the gallantry and heroism associated with the American cowboy and the macho-ism of the “Wild, Wild West legacy. Given the choice of best movie on race or validated homos*xuality tied to the macho white male imagery, the academy choose to deal with something they’ve struggled with for 200 years versus introducing a new image of white males that in the eyes of some, like Christian conservatives, carries some negative connotations. They weren’t ready for John Wayne to turn over in his grave over the deconstruction of an image of hero-macho-ism that he (and the academy) spent 50 years constructing. And they wouldn’t give best original song with a theme that it ain’t easy being gay, or drug-user, or a serial killer, or any other negative imagery historically associated with white men. And they make hundreds of movies to counteract that one movie or song that might portray negative imagery. But they have no problem resurrecting “the black pimp,” in movie or song, over and over again, like that’s the only thing a black man can be. The successful or intelligent or articulate black men in the Sidney Portier image hasn’t been resurrected since Sidney left the screen. Positive black imagery is rarely portrayed, and even more rarely rewarded by the academy.

Dirty cops, slaves, wicked women, pimps…we can get plenty of recognition for those roles and now the ni**a, *itch, hoe mentality wins an Oscar. No matter how hard we try to reject these images, they find their way back in the limelight of America entertainment venues. Now, people walking past black people at work, talkin’ ‘bout, “It’s hard out here for a pimp.” Somehow, I don’t think that smile (or smirk) on their face is a congratulatory one. Black America is being laughed at, again…under the guise of creative recognition. Now we can expect more “pimp” songs and more “wanna-be” pimps as reality always imitates art in our communities (versus the other way around).

More damage for us to try to reverse. More young minds for us to try to keep straight while the celebration gets louder. All I can say is, “It’s hard out here for an anti-pimp.”

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Posted By: Daniel Moss
Wednesday, March 22nd 2006 at 1:57PM
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I definitley agree with you, the thing is that we want respect from other races especially the white race but yet want to disrespect eachother by loosley using phrases like pimps, hoes, and the worst of all n*gga. Alot of people don't realize that we are degrading ourselves by using these terms. It's time that we stop and take a look and demand respect from eachother and the the respect of others will follow.
Wednesday, March 22nd 2006 at 3:46PM
ashley r
Man Shut Up!!! Just A SOng Calm Down
Wednesday, March 22nd 2006 at 10:12PM
Robert Collins
Roberts comment shows that this form of attack on blacks is working. To say that "it's just a song" indicates that your perception of "songs" is that they do not have the power to affect social change, to spark upheaval, to inspire, to teach, and so on...

Songs and music for that matter are among the most powerful and influential gifts that God has given to man. If we are not conscious of the power they have to mold and shape our minds, attitudes and beliefs, we will forever be at the whims of an industry that historically has used our music against us.

What are you listening to in your iPod Robbert? Doesn't your music inspire you sometimes? Motivate you to do great things? Well on the other side of that coin, what kind of influence does negative music and imagery have on your self-image? It's much more than a song. Your mind and attitudes are being molded. Stop playing long enough to realize that blacks are being destroyed by the thousands - mentally - through the music!

If you think it's "just a song", then THEY GOT YOU TOO!
Thursday, March 23rd 2006 at 10:47AM
Daniel Moss
Robert not only does this music affect you or maybe it doesn't because maybe you understand that Pimpin' is not the right thing to do, but for a baby who hears this music, they may think that it is okay. Rappers and many artist claim that they are not role models, but they are. I am from Memphis and whereas I am pround of accomplishments made by fellow blacks, I am embarrassed because when people look at Memphis they immediately refer to Hustle and Flow or Three Six Mafia and think that that is what Memphis is all about. Our children see the videos on BET and MTV and they think that this is the right way to live and the truth is the majority of the Artist putting this music out is doing this strictly for entertainment and have not really live the life themselves. They are however stirring our youth in the wrong direction. There is nothing cool about Pimping and Prostituting and our children need to know this and that they are better than that. We as a community need to be teaching our children a different lifestyle!!!
Thursday, March 23rd 2006 at 11:14AM
VICSKEYAS MOORE
im not hear to judge whether three 6 mafia deserve to win a oscar but in the words of don king 'only in america'

Thursday, March 23rd 2006 at 3:16PM
eric hamilton
No matter how you feel about Three 6 mafia you have to admit that this is a barrier that has been crossed with them winning that Oscar and personallly if you feel that way don't support them, their song, or that movie. I thought hustle in flow was a really good movie. It's honest and raw. It's not sugarcoated it presents a very uncommon situation!! Every one is entitled to free speech so however you feel cool!!!
Friday, March 24th 2006 at 12:27PM
Ashley Davis
I will never forget seeing Nelson Mandela at the Los Angeles Coliseum on June 28, 1990 right after he was released from prison and was making his world tour. One of the people that was also in attendance and performing for the crowd that day before Mr. Mandela took the stage was KRS-1. Now whether you agree with what he has to say or not, he always puts information out there for you to process at your own pace. He made a statement that garnered many boos from the crowd made up of people who looked like me at the time: The leather Africa emblem black pride medallion wearing, high top fade gumby slope having, members of the young pseudo-black conciousness of that time. KRS-1 said that "Whether we like it or not we live in a society of pimps and hoes. The question is whether you make a decision as to which one you are going to be." To validate his statement he made references to whether you own a company or work for a company, and how all of the major industries pimp society on a daily basis. I have carried that with me and have mentally fought with that image over the years since, and unfortunately have found that he indeed was correct with his statements.

I don't know what to say about negative or positive images regarding this, all I know is that a pimp is in control of his hoes. If you are not in control of your life, someone or something is pimping you. It is time that Black people pimp themselves to their own benefit.
Friday, March 24th 2006 at 2:34PM
Terence Hendrix
Man Please!!!! Somebody Always got 2 say something about something. If u from the hood like me and others you can relate. If u from the outside looking in(stayed in the suburbs, had really strict parents and could not go outside and chill with the homies, or if u just a straight white collar type of person) u just dont get wear the music is coming from. so far all u so called social conscious people I'll leave saying this maybe you'll didnt no this but it is HARD OUT HERE FOR A PIMP!! oh and just so you'll no this is coming from a college graduate with a degre in computer science and who is now working on his Masters and I am only 24.(Just in case you'll thought I was just some knuckle head talking!!!) Either listen to the music and enjoy it and embrace it or just listen 2 what ever u like. PEACE!!!
Friday, March 24th 2006 at 5:59PM
Robert Collins
I think it is a travesty for "us" to continally use terms that demean and disrespect each other. I think this song is so much more than a song; it represents the attitude of so many of our young people. We have to take responsiblility and begin to uplift one another and see to it that what we see and hear encourages, rather than destroys our self-image. Our men have been emasculated enough, our women have been demeaned enough. We perpetuate what our white counterparts have instilled in us, while they get rich.
Monday, March 27th 2006 at 9:30AM
Bernadette Martin
Mr. Collins seems to believe that its just a song that people from the "streets" can relate to and argues that whether or not you approve the song, it has broke a social barrier in Hollywood/America. While this may be tru to an extent, we have to think if it set us a step back as well as furthering us. Did we sacrifice something indeed more valuable to gain acceptance from "white Hollywood"? I believe we have becasue taking one step forward and another back means you haven't made progress at all. It leaves you where? Right back from where you started.
Monday, March 27th 2006 at 4:22PM
Meshach Keye
Thanks Meshach.
Tuesday, March 28th 2006 at 10:36AM
Daniel Moss
By the way, the Bible does not teach just entertainment. The Bible states do not call evil good, somewhere in Proverbs and in New Testament.
Lots wife looked and what happened.
A little leaven leaveneth the whole doe and anyone with children.... I can go all day on this.
Well lets stand in Heaven before Jesus and tell God for all who believe that this song is nothing but....
Hey everything is all good right?
Tuesday, March 28th 2006 at 1:12PM
WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III
Thanks for all your comments. feel free to continue this discussion, but it's time for a new featured blog.
Thursday, March 30th 2006 at 2:03PM
Daniel Moss
Next blog: "It's hard out here for a BLOGGER!"
Monday, April 3rd 2006 at 6:24PM
Daniel Moss
I have kept my word, I am just getting back to computer.
Blessings for all.
Thursday, April 6th 2006 at 10:46AM
WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III
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