I have learned as King David did that each time You are cheated on, betrayed, lied upon, gossiped about etc., whther male or female that "God" loved You soo much that "He" allowed You to find out before irreparable, permanent, possibly life threatening damage could be done.
Proving scripture??? Psalms 21:8 "Thine hand shall find out ALL THINE(Place Your Name) enemies(Anyone that hurts You Wrongfully): Thy("God") shall find out Those(Boyfriends, Girlfriends, Gossipers, Betrayers, Folks that act like friends to You and betray You to others etc.)
In a day and age where Aids and all kinds of STD's run rampant and babies being made left and right, people getting killed behind relationships, most people caught up in this are the ones who keep going back and dealing with it. COMMON SENSE. Love and infatuation are 2 different things. There is a line.
I myself have fallen a few times in my life and when I have I fell hard.
For gossip, slander, backstabbing etc. Psalms 31:13 deals with this, david dealt with it all "For I have heard the slander of many: fear was on every side while THEY took counsel together against me, they devised to take away my life.
Ever been in the darnest places, situations, circumstances or times and found out things? That was all "God".
Now some people feel people are not out to actually hurt them but Psalms 41:7 states "All that hate me whisper together against me: against me do they devise my hurt. There is no inbetween spiritual bull crap, either You love or You hate...
Anyone ever been here, Psalms 41:9 "Yea, mine own familiar friend(those You have tried to only be kind to), in whom I trusted, which did eat of my bread(People You Would Do Anything For), hath lifted up his/her(To Crush You Underneath Them, Obliteration) against Me(Place Your name).
But "God" loves You so much that Psalms 88:8,18 ""Thou" hast put away mine acquaintances(Negative against You) far from me(My Ex was sent to Texas and then Iraq): "Thou hast made me an abomination unto them(Why were You done that way?): I am shut up(No matter how hard You try, You can't get them to do rightfully), and I cannot come forth(You can't reach them no matter what because God knows what You don't know for Your own good and something far better is for just You).
"Lover and friend hast Thou put far from me, and mine acquaitance(You never knew the real person, they were a stranger to you) into darkness(let them go their own ways).
In Pslams the Bible also talks about how the love one gave was returned by cruelty and how their words were so smooth while war ravaged in their hearts?
But God whether tears or pain, they are all counted the same and avengement does come. I have been on both sides of this.
In the New Testament the Bible talks about a devil being cast out and then returning with 7 more demons(perfect plot to destroy those who allow that devil to return, most people do not change, but few...)
Also ever wonder why You can't get over that person? I have been there. I have counseled more adolescents and adults than I can remember and was able to help fix their problems but all the psychology I knew could not help me. It is so true that Doctors make the worst patients.
Well do You know that anytime You have s*x with a person that Your souls are knit and that is actually a wedding covenant?
1 Corinthians 6:16 "WHAT? KNOW YE NOT THAT HE/SHE WHICH IS JOINED TO A HARLOT(THE PERSON YOU CHOOSE TO SLEEP WITH IS ALREADY ONE AND BIRDS OF A FEATHER... BEING EVENLY YOKED) IS "ONE" BODY? FOR TWO, SAITHHE/SHE, SHALL BE ONE FLESH"
Compare that scripture with the scriptures about marriage.
I see so many writings, sayings, news etc. about babbies momma's, daddies, cheaters, adulterers etc. One needs to be very careful about this, breaking up is not a divorce many times, your spirit is still knit to another person.
I am trying not to turn this into a book because of the deepness of these issues and I am trying to keep this short thus the stoppage of so many scriptures to show You but the more people a person has slept with, if not released from the body, many problems will abound. Ever met a person that does not know who they want to be with or no one fits what they need? Who can fit all the souls and exponentially all the souls male, female, gay etc. that are mixed with that person?
eVER DEALT WITH A PERSON THAT DOES NOT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT OR ARE NEVER SATISFIED WITH YOU UNTIL THEY HAVE A NEED OR WANT TO GET WITH YOU?
For me I had to ask "God" to take kim's spirit out of me and that I could not do this on my own, I mean the house I bought was for her to come into town and stay at, my dog was the puppy I bought for her, her scent was in my sheets, her presence in my house, her items still there after she left for the Airforce as an officer. I would throw her picture outside and later retrieve it!!!??? Lol!
And when I released her guess what? Her momma emailed me to imply that her daughter wanted me back thus my quote I use often, "WHAT GOD GAVE BACK TO THE DEVIL I AIN'T TRYN TO GO BACK AND GET".
bY THE WAY THE SCRIPTURES STATE THE PERSON THAT IS USED LIKE THAT IS DECEIVED, USED, SILLY AND DRAWN AWAY BECAUSE THEY LUSTED 1ST. THIS IS 2 TIMOTHY 3:6 "FOR OF THIS SORT ARE THEY WHICH CREEP INTO HOUSES, AND LEAD CAPTIVE SILLY WOMEN/MEN LADEN WITH SINS, LED AWAY WITH DIVERS LUSTS,"
I accepted my own faults and stated next time the female with have to put a ring on my finger for this. I make a lot of people laugh when I say this.
Also the devil is busy because men get this also by the way, females trying you and asking are you gay if you resist.
Ever notice ex's get mad at you when you resist after trying to be tactful with them and blame you?
Been there done that.
Enough for now, my 2cents worth to answer many abundantly stated pains on being cheated, manipulated, deceived, betrayed etc.
A whole book can be written in this area in which billions of people have encountered.
Look forward to responses and sharing if You like.
I pray You benefit.
Peace
P.S. Now don't You know that if "God" is doing all this for you to discover any negativity against You the reaping and sowing is going on if You are not interfering with the process? Think about Job and his negative so called friends and how they had to go back to the person offended..................................
All will know who has reaped............
Posted By: WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III
Thursday, February 2nd 2006 at 6:26PM
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