Low self-esteem and your marriage | Husbands
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MAMA IRMA SAID,,,THERE IS NO ONE LOWER THAN SOMEONE WHO TURNS ON THEIR OWN WIFE/MOTHER IN THEIR QUEST TO DEFINE THE FEMALE AS NOTING BUT A s*x OBJECT TO BE USED, ABUSED AND GO COOK DINNER, CLEAN, WASHCLOTHES AND BE A BABY MACHINE!!!(NUP!!!)
Spouses ARE NOT property. Truly loving another person implies that you trust the person will not run off with what appears to be “the bigger, better deal.” Having healthy self-esteem allows you to trust in your spouse’s love and understand the difference between fleeting physical admiration and profound love. Physical admiration involves the eyes; profound love involves everything else.If your on line posting pics of another woman then your wife is not the apple of your eye and you are expressing your desire openly in a form that was made for something else be careful your wife is really watching all that you do and if you love yourself you'd respect her and your family never give a perception your not willing to back up ,,,,if not your low self esteem will be evident to all !
much anger may arise from triggers that aren’t even related to your relationship. They can be leftovers from past relationships that haven’t been resolved, or even family of origin issues that have been swept under the rug and assert themselves when certain triggers crop up. Frustration, confusion and resentment are all by-products of low self-esteem and can be detrimental to your marriage.
Ideally, your spouse understands and accepts your weaknesses, but as we have all likely realized, we don’t live in such an ideal world. Our spouses are as vulnerable to attacks of defensiveness as we are, albeit in different areas. Building a strong self image and practicing the methods of good self-esteem may help to eliminate these weaknesses in marriage and avoid some of the catastrophic issues that may arise like cheating, emotional affairs and divorce.
Some well known triggers are those that individuals don’t always associate with insecurity. For instance, while it is generally understood that men are visual creatures and enjoy the beauty of other women, it’s widely known that most wives dislike their husbands admiring other women. We often hear: LUST KILLS A MARRIAGE !!!!
Posted By: DAVID JOHNSON
Thursday, November 7th 2013 at 1:52PM
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