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i dont get how some guys dont realize that they have a good woman that is there for them through everything but they feel that they can go cheat on that woman with out any problem.....what is wrong with dudes i mean they dont see the queen in front of them????.....i just dont understand y men feel they have to cheat when they've already got something good standing right in front of them......maybe some dudes on here can inlighten me upon this subject
Posted By: KeKe Rogers
Saturday, March 12th 2005 at 6:07PM
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Most men believe in the theory of 'why buy the cow when you can get the milk free'. There is so much free milk out there that lots of women become just another statistic. Trying being different from the rest of the herd, if I can use that analogy. Focus on your school work & stop competing for a roll in the hay. Ultimately, what you make of yourself will net you far more than just being another member of a never ending hareem. I hope that you understand me. Men don't like women who are too accessible except for one thing. Dare to be different & your life will change. Lastly, stop spreading your business.
Sunday, March 13th 2005 at 9:47AM
Jackie Williams
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WHEN THEY HAVA A GOOD THING THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO ACCEPT IT AND BE GRATEFUL. THEY ONLY LEARN WHEN THEY LOSE IT AND SEE HOW MUCH OF AN IMPACT THAT WOMAN HAD ON THERE LIVES..THATS A TIPICAL MAN. THEY NEVER KNOW WHEN ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. IT'S NOT THE WOMEN IT'S HOW THEY WERE RAISED. SPOILED.
Sunday, March 13th 2005 at 1:48PM
Cheryl Larkin
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Some people say that they don't understand how a guy can give up a good woman but I can understand just well. It's the same principle practice with women as it is with men; it's not human nature to stick to one person though it can happen. Yes, males do encounter females who are good people and are good for them; almost like a vitamin of love. However, there are too many females around who will "dog" out guys and treat them as if they are nothing and force some guys to change their views on women as a whole. So, the next time you see a girl being stuck up to a guy then you should give her a piece of your mind to put a resolution to this problem.
Monday, March 14th 2005 at 4:42AM
Dion McNeil
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First of all since the beginning of time men and women view relationships differently. All men realize when they have something good, and it doesn't take going through something tragic for them to realize it either. A person can do right if they want to! By nature women love differently than men. Whereas men believe that it is still possible to be in love with one woman and have other women to provide fantasy. Women love differently because we have a tendency to believe that every man we deal with has the potential to be our "soulmate" or "husband". So you might ask yourself, How do we keep the one we love from hurting us, and still be able to give them what they need and love them unconditionally??? Well, that answer is easier said than done but i've learned you have to: love "you" first, realize what risks you are willing to take because love is a gamble,understand what you are really seeking from your relationship and last but definitely not least have FAITH and PRAY!!! Remember that these trials are just a test......!
Monday, March 14th 2005 at 11:06AM
Precious James
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Honestly, as I was told, "n*ggas is ignorant." Sad, but true. That's why I don't understand what women see in these dudes. They know they are no good, but they still run to them.
Me, I'd never intentionally or try to cheat on woman. I've been cheated on, so I know how it feels and the hurt it causes. I don't want to put anyone through that.
It's like the quote goes, "You never know what you have until it's gone."
Monday, March 14th 2005 at 3:31PM
Darryl D. Smith
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Well I have been on both sides of this. I hve been cheated on and i have done the cheating. Basically from my experiences all i can tell you it is all about the mind set and the influences. Everyone knows they are going to cheat before they do it. You may try to deny the feeling but after all of that it is true. There are still some good men out there it is just waiting on the right one to find you or vice versa.
Monday, March 14th 2005 at 6:59PM
Jason Craigie
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I don't get why people seem to want to see men as the enemy all the time. Hell, women are dogs as well. I've seen more guys who are treated horribly by women then the other side of the ball park. Women always tell men that men shouldn't judge them as a whole as a result of a bad relationship. However, don't most women, especially black women, refer to all men as dogs? That's something that no one around the world could deny; you even see it on television, the movies and in everyday life.
If we want to REALLY do something about this situation and others like it then women should treat guys the same way they'd want to be treated. You don't like to get dumped? Then don't treat a guy like complete crap and maybe that won't happen. I haven't met a girl yet who hasn't broken a man's heart before; it's something that all women will eventually do. I guess women are finally getting the butt of the heart break now and rightfully so.
Basically, if you want to go around saying that even SOME guys cheat on their significant others then you'd have to say the same thing about women as well. Call me crazy, call me unfair but I'm a naturalist and I tell it like it is. If someone doesn't like it then it's not my problem.
Wednesday, March 16th 2005 at 1:51AM
Dion McNeil
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