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So much problems...

So much problems...

Shaniqua Rogers · Wednesday, June 22nd 2005 at 8:15PM · 391 views
I have a friend who is pregnant and during her 2nd month of pregnancy, her baby father, whom she been with for almost 2 years, broke up with her for a stupid reason. So now they sometime talks. He don't really call just to see how she doing and ask questions about the baby and doctor visits. But during this pregnancy moment she get real emotional and she can't even talk to him about it because he act so rude and nasty towards her. They hardly see each other because he is away at school and haven't come back up to their hometown yet. And she still want to be with him and always ask him simple questions about their relationship such as do he still love her or what's gonna happen with them when the baby get here. So far the baby father don't know how she feel about him. SO what do I tell her to make her feel better and to help he rnot stress out over this????

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Darryl D. Smith Wednesday, June 22nd 2005 at 9:33PM

Tell her that she needs to let him go. She don't need no stress (I know it's incorrect grammar) while she's pregnant. A premature birth is not good. Tell her to chill and to tell him that she doesn't need any added stress. Plus, tell her that you are there for her for anything she needs (if yall cool like that). That'll help her get through this as well.

Also, make sure she eats healthy. Not eating healthy also leads to premature birth...

Kevin Smith Thursday, June 23rd 2005 at 12:13AM

yo its pukka
i would say forget about'em. jus like my uncle told me, "anybody wit a d*** could be a dad, but it takes a real one to be a father." if u could b the best friend u could b, u could help her out when she needs it the most. this goes to prove that yall single parents are the strongest and us fellas need to step our game up. hit me up. Holla.

Ru A. Thursday, June 23rd 2005 at 12:15AM

Definitely advise her tolet him go. I know that might seem impossible to her during this time in her life but if he doesn't want to be there for her, then she needs to bounce. Though, sometimes, a young guy will act like this out of fear when he hears news like this. Also, like they said, stress can cause her to go through early labor or even have a miscarriage. You never know, he might just man up later in the pregnancy and actually treat her right and take responsibility but maybe not. Just be there for her as much as you can and show her she has a friend in you. I wish her the best, Iruka...:)

Alise P. Thursday, June 23rd 2005 at 2:48AM

LET HIS BUTT GO. Tell her to start making plans and arrangements so that if she ends up on her own she will be prepared and won't have to rely on no N*&*a. I been there and trust me I know. My baby's didnt make it though. Tell her to let it go please. Get herself together and to remember its no longer about her its about the betterment of her child and raising him/her right. She don't need no N*&^a to fill her up with no BS and play the partime role. Not bashing Guys but Im just being real. My best friend is in the situation also. She has a one year old and her baby daddy still acting dumb. I told her from the get go If he wasnt giving no act right then what made her think he was gon act right when the baby came. Naw she don't need to go through what I went through...

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