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If we love someone, why do we cheat?

If we love someone, why do we cheat?

Ciara Ford · Wednesday, June 22nd 2005 at 2:29PM · 470 views
Well, i have been wondering about this for a long time. Why do you say that you love someone if you cheat on them? If you love them there will be no reason to cheat. Cheating on your mate can lead to so much drama. Can anyone explain why is there a reason to cheat if there is love in the relationship?

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Darryl D. Smith Wednesday, June 22nd 2005 at 3:54PM

I'll tell you why. It's not real love. If you really love someone, then you know that they are the one for you and you wouldn't think of cheating on them. Even if the thought crosses your mind, you'll let it go and stay with your loved one. Also...unstable people cheat on their loved ones too...

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Monica Brown Wednesday, June 22nd 2005 at 4:00PM

I think cheating has nothing to do with the person you are with. A cheater will cheat no matter who he's or she's with. That's why a lot of times the person they are cheating with is usually not even up to the status of their mate. It's also why some people will not cheat no matter how horrible their mate treats them. A person who cheats has to work on themselves. They are the ones who need Jesus or counseling or whatever help that is recommended.

We have to love and respect ourselves enough not to cheat on our mates. Love for ourselves and God is the only love that will stop a cheater from cheating.

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