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Love them both despite their flaws, Baby Girl. You do need to tell him Happy Father's day. I have a father who is only that by name and a stepfather who has been there for me for nearly 30 years. My father is still my father and I called them both. I just don't want anything bad or mean on my heart regarding him. I wouldn't know what to do if that were the case and something happened to him.
I am a step parent and it is a hard job. I love my sons, but sometimes I feel like they think I'm in the way even though I've been with their father since they were babies. I don't want to ever show favor with my children and am always aware of them even though they don't live with us. Even with all of that, I know I'm not their mother and at times they remind me of that (not in a rude way) and it hurts. I have my own kids, but if I love my step sons, why can't they just love me for who I am, even if I'm not their biological mother?
Tell you step father Happy Father's Day, please.
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Hmmm...I know the feeling as with stepmom/mother. I always tell my mom happy mother's day, but I could care less about the step mother. She rarely talks to me, so it's like she only acknowledges me because of my dad. I don't care though. I got the woman I need most in my life already.
But two wrongs don't make a right. You should've told him how you felt and still told him Happy Father's day. Father's Day comes once a year...and he is in your life more than your biological father...so...