YOU ARE WHAT YOU APPEAR TO BE!
lADIES IT'S SAD BUT IN A WAY KINDA FUNNY. WHY. THE OTHER DAY A FRIEND OF MINE , WHO HAPPENS TO BE A GUY , AND I WERE TALKING , THE SUBJECT FEMALES. HE COULDN'T UNDERSTAND WHY FEMALES POSTED s*xUALLY EXPLICIT PICS OF THEMSELVES ON THE WEB SOME EXPOSING ALL , OTHERS NEARLY ****. AND THEN ONCE THEY FIND A GUY WHOM THEIR INTERESTED IN THEY THEN TRY TO SHOW THAT PARTICULAR GUY THEIR "INTELLIGENT SIDE" WHAT THEY FAIL TO REALIZE IS THAT IT'S TOO LATE. AFTER HE'S SEEN YOUR PIC THAT TOLD HIM ALL HE NEEDS TO KNOW , YOU ARE WHAT YOU APPEAR TO BE. YOUR PIC LEAVES THAT FIRST IMPRESSION AND APPEARENCE IS EVERYTHING SO LADIES BEFORE YOU DECIDE TO ADVERTISE THINK ABOUT THE OUT COME OF YOUR ACTIONS AND HOW THAT MAY MAKE YOU APPEAR.
You have to understand the mind set of most women especially young women today. There are those women who feel that they have to pose almost **** because it's to them s*xy, or the only way they know how to attract friends whether its female or male. Society has always portrayed and shown black women to be ugly. As a child growing up, my mother taught me what society thinks of me with my big lips, hips, thighs and hair (I also get it from the black community), however now that she has shown me what I am up against her teaching kicks in as who I really am.......blessed, lips that speaks wisdom and intelligence; hips that can carry any weight (trials, storms that may come my way); thighs that make me strong enough to run to any situtation or circumstance and conquer it; hair that makes me lie down on comfort and peace at the end of the day.
I know that I do not have to show anything or act a certain way to attract friends. I know for sure I can stand by myself and not be alone.