Truth!!!!!!

I not sure if i would want to know the truth b/c it may just depend on the person and how may times they messed up

I wouldn't wanna know, not if i'm truly in love and happy. I'm just being honest. Hey, it's not like it's not possible to get played. Peace, thats just me speakin

I've been there. Yes I would want to know especially if we've been talking about marriage. Or even if it was just a long term relationship yes I think we've been together long enough for there to be no lies and secrets. I mean. It depends on if the afair was an on going thing and how long you were lying for. I mean no one likes a liar especially if you're in love with that person. Depends on how serious, how commited, and the sincereity of comign out and tellin the truth, those are some of my deciding factors I need to decide whether to go or to stay. RICHARD YOU NEED TO EMAIL ME. WHAT HAVE U DONE?

I hate it when people lie to me. Thank you Alise, I think with all these questions, he's done something.

I agree. I would want to know. Trust is everything. Being in love includes being open and honest with the person that you are in love with. You shouldn't have a relationship based on a lie. It's better to know now, than to find out when it's too late or from someone else.

I think I would and would'nt want to know. In away I don't want to be cheated on so I would want to know. But if I'm really in love with the girl I would'nt want to here it.

That is a complex issue. i would want to know if my man cheated on me, he would get tested immediately for any STD's. I would also want to meet the girl he cheated with and talk to her But I think i would forgive him. people make mistakes as long as he is man enough to fess up to it and is willing to be a better person then most definently we could work things out.