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HE WANTS TO PLEASE ME IF U KNOW WHAT I MEAN . .

Crystal Rhodes · Friday, May 27th 2005 at 6:27PM · 311 views
I have this guy who's been callin me since middle school and I'm 21 now. He says he really loves me and blah, blah, blah blah, blah!! He used to listen to me complain about my boyfriends and how I thought they were chaeting and everything!!! I just don't like hime though!! I don't know why!! I think he's too nice!!! Anyway I don't know how but we got to talkin about s*x and how long its been for me!! Now, right now, I'm not focused on s*x or men for that matter!! I mean a boyfriend would be nice but school is first!! (Like mommy says . . . :)!!!) Anyway, no he's been offering to just please me (use ur imagination) and it sounds good but I'm not in to using people!! And thats not fair to him is it!!! I should stop answering his calls shouldn't I????

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Dwayne Dunham Jr. Friday, May 27th 2005 at 8:21PM

yeah... don't do something that you don't want to do... if you don't like him, just tell him that you don't wanna get down like that.. plain and simple..

Darryl D. Smith Friday, May 27th 2005 at 8:24PM

You should continue to talk to him. Tell him how you feel, so it won't be any miscommunications. Don't do somethin you don't want to do though...

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Alana Toolie Friday, May 27th 2005 at 11:32PM

First, he's too nice? Oh my goodness, if I had a penny everytime someone said that, I wouldn't even care how much Dillard was charging. Anyway, us women have really bad reputations with using that excuse, but, like you said, complain when we think the guy is cheating. If you don't like him, just say that, but don't blame on him being "too nice". Personally, I believe that females use that excuse because sometimes we don't recognize our worth, how can someone be too nice? We can be too picky, don't get me wrong, we deserve all God has for us, but don't jepordize it before it starts. As far as the s*x thing, I'm totally against pre-marital. And last, if you all have been friends this long, to stop answering his calls shouldn't even be an option. They would be totally wrong. Tell him how you feel and talk about this thing like the sensible adults you are. I pray peace on this issue and blessings on all your future endeavors.

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