A lil relationship help #1
I've been going around on the site and I've noticed that alot of people are having trouble either finding people or keeping people...So I'd figured I'd try to help out or whateva....I get emails from this guy who specializes in relationships(gotta book and everything) and his stuff works...I haven't used them personally(just not my style, I just do me), but I've gave them to other people and they work wonders...At least try them out...What do u have to lose....I'll put one twice a week(he sends alot of letters), and I'll put up the link to his book...I think u have to pay 4 it, but it's worth it...This guy makes sense...alot of this is 4 the fellas(cuz we need 2 get it together), but ladies can get something from this too...I hope this helps somebody...leave feedback to let me know whassup....
Letter from: May 1
Nice Guys And s*xY Bad Boys
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This week I'm going to do something a little bit
unusual...
First I'm going to ask you to consider something,
then I'm going to give you a little bit of homework.
This week is all about ACTION!
Here's the thing I want you to consider first:
I was reading an article on AOL titled "What's
Wrong With Nice Guys?". Here's a little quote from
the article:
"...Do Women Date Naughty Guys but Marry Nice Ones?
This notion sounds an awful lot like the irritating
good-girl/bad-girl distinction that men continue to
make. Still, it does contain a nugget of sense. Since
women truly are conditioned to be "good girls," sometimes
we feel uncomfortable with or guilty about that pure
burning "I must have him!" feeling. That's why we sometimes
seek out a bad boy to serve as the object of these
desires, says Cleveland psychotherapist Belleruth Naparstek,
creator of the Health Journeys series of guided imagery
tapes. "In order for the deliciousness of pure lust
to be 'okay,' it has to be for the symbolic bad boy
who has nothing to do with the rest of your life. With
him, you can crank up your animal impulses, worry-free,"
she says...."
Interesting, isn't it?
Now, I personally disagree with the idea that women
"seek out" Bad Boys because they need somewhere to
project their guilty lust... and I disagree with the
idea that there's something "wrong" with the fact that
women are attracted to Bad Boys...
But the point is that the "mainstream" psychology
and behavior world is starting to accept the idea that
women are ATTRACTED to "Bad Boys".
It will probably be another ten years before anyone
with a degree puts two and two together and says "Hey,
maybe women feel ATTRACTION for Bad Boys for natural,
evolutionary reasons, and that's why Bad Boys are considered
"s*xy"..."
Hell, maybe I should say it... Oh wait, I already
did...
Whatever.
Point is, there's something to the idea that woman
don't feel that powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for "nice"
guys who chase after them and kiss up to them.
Women do, on the other hand, feel that magical emotion
called ATTRACTION for BAD BOYS.
Of course, I don't believe that you MUST be a jerk,
or abuse women in order to make them feel attracted
to you. There's a much better way...
PART 2: THE HOMEWORK
OK, here's what I want you to do...
If you own my eBook "Double Your Dating", go to
chapter 4, and read it again.
If you own my Advanced Series, I'd like you to go
to Day 2, Section 1, and review again.
(If you don't own these yet, then you need to get
them immediately! You're cheating yourself if you don't
invest in yourself in this area... really.)
Now, I want you to do something CONSCIOUSLY this
week.
I want you to do the following with the next 5 women
that you talk to over the next few days... (these should
be women that you would be interested in dating):
1) Smile all the time.
2) Be very nice, cordial, and friendly. Use no sarcasm,
and don't tease.
3) Act as if you really "like" the woman you're talking
to... and as if you're "interested" in her.
4) Give her lots of compliments.
5) Optional: Politely say "You probably have a boyfriend,
right? Can I take you out sometime?"
Pay careful attention, and notice how the women
respond to you.
Now, I want you to try something different with
the NEXT 5 women you talk to...
1) Don't smile very often.
2) Pretend that you've known her for 20 years, and
that you're TOO comfortable around her. Tease her for
something that no one teases her about... like the
way she dresses, etc.
3) Pretend that she's interested in YOU, and has been
pursuing YOU, and that you're resisting her. Make jokes
about it and say things like "I just don't think things
are going to work out between us".
4) Give her NO compliments of any kind. If she gives
you any, say "That's a cheesy pick up line. Can't you
think of something more original?"
5) Optional: Say "Hey, do you have email? Good. Write
it down here..."
...and pay attention to the difference.
If you really "play it up", you'll notice a HUGE
difference between the first five women you talk to
and the next five.
During the first set of five, when you're being
a "Nice Wuss", you'll see the looks on the women's
faces that say "Oh, no. Another guy who "likes" me.
How can I get rid of him politely?..."
During the SECOND set of five, you'll see the women
opening their mouths with the "half smile, half oh-no-
you-didn't-just-say-that look". You'll feel a TENSION
in the air. You'll notice that some of the women will
actually look at you as if they can't believe what
they're hearing.
If you're particularly sharp and funny, you might
just have one or two of them say "I like you... we
have to hang out sometime" within the first few minutes
of the conversation. You will NEVER hear that when
you're playing the "Nice Wuss", by the way.
(SIDE NOTE: I went out with some friends once, and
I was taking pictures of some of my friends... when
I overheard this girl talking to her friend. I took
what she and her friend were talking about, and I teased
her about it... and within no more than 60 seconds
the girl was saying "Ohmygod, I like you! We need to
hang out sometime...". Really.)
Do your homework! And have FUN while you're at it.
...and by the way. If you haven't downloaded your
copy of my eBook, and ordered your ZERO RISK copy of my
Advanced Series, then get to it...
You'll learn more in a few hours of studying my
materials than most guys will learn in their whole
LIVES about how to attract women.
Both come with an "offer you can't refuse", and
I'm serious...
You can try them at zero cost... nothing.
If you're not thrilled, and you don't meet more
women, you don't have to pay a dime.
You can download the eBook here right now:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProducts.com/10...
Letter from: May 1
Nice Guys And s*xY Bad Boys
--------------------------------------------------
To safely and permanently exclude yourself from
future mailings just click the link at the end
of this newsletter. To sign yourself up for this
no cost e-letter, visit www.DoubleYourDatingProducts.com.
---------------------------------------------------
This week I'm going to do something a little bit
unusual...
First I'm going to ask you to consider something,
then I'm going to give you a little bit of homework.
This week is all about ACTION!
Here's the thing I want you to consider first:
I was reading an article on AOL titled "What's
Wrong With Nice Guys?". Here's a little quote from
the article:
"...Do Women Date Naughty Guys but Marry Nice Ones?
This notion sounds an awful lot like the irritating
good-girl/bad-girl distinction that men continue to
make. Still, it does contain a nugget of sense. Since
women truly are conditioned to be "good girls," sometimes
we feel uncomfortable with or guilty about that pure
burning "I must have him!" feeling. That's why we sometimes
seek out a bad boy to serve as the object of these
desires, says Cleveland psychotherapist Belleruth Naparstek,
creator of the Health Journeys series of guided imagery
tapes. "In order for the deliciousness of pure lust
to be 'okay,' it has to be for the symbolic bad boy
who has nothing to do with the rest of your life. With
him, you can crank up your animal impulses, worry-free,"
she says...."
Interesting, isn't it?
Now, I personally disagree with the idea that women
"seek out" Bad Boys because they need somewhere to
project their guilty lust... and I disagree with the
idea that there's something "wrong" with the fact that
women are attracted to Bad Boys...
But the point is that the "mainstream" psychology
and behavior world is starting to accept the idea that
women are ATTRACTED to "Bad Boys".
It will probably be another ten years before anyone
with a degree puts two and two together and says "Hey,
maybe women feel ATTRACTION for Bad Boys for natural,
evolutionary reasons, and that's why Bad Boys are considered
"s*xy"..."
Hell, maybe I should say it... Oh wait, I already
did...
Whatever.
Point is, there's something to the idea that woman
don't feel that powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for "nice"
guys who chase after them and kiss up to them.
Women do, on the other hand, feel that magical emotion
called ATTRACTION for BAD BOYS.
Of course, I don't believe that you MUST be a jerk,
or abuse women in order to make them feel attracted
to you. There's a much better way...
PART 2: THE HOMEWORK
OK, here's what I want you to do...
If you own my eBook "Double Your Dating", go to
chapter 4, and read it again.
If you own my Advanced Series, I'd like you to go
to Day 2, Section 1, and review again.
(If you don't own these yet, then you need to get
them immediately! You're cheating yourself if you don't
invest in yourself in this area... really.)
Now, I want you to do something CONSCIOUSLY this
week.
I want you to do the following with the next 5 women
that you talk to over the next few days... (these should
be women that you would be interested in dating):
1) Smile all the time.
2) Be very nice, cordial, and friendly. Use no sarcasm,
and don't tease.
3) Act as if you really "like" the woman you're talking
to... and as if you're "interested" in her.
4) Give her lots of compliments.
5) Optional: Politely say "You probably have a boyfriend,
right? Can I take you out sometime?"
Pay careful attention, and notice how the women
respond to you.
Now, I want you to try something different with
the NEXT 5 women you talk to...
1) Don't smile very often.
2) Pretend that you've known her for 20 years, and
that you're TOO comfortable around her. Tease her for
something that no one teases her about... like the
way she dresses, etc.
3) Pretend that she's interested in YOU, and has been
pursuing YOU, and that you're resisting her. Make jokes
about it and say things like "I just don't think things
are going to work out between us".
4) Give her NO compliments of any kind. If she gives
you any, say "That's a cheesy pick up line. Can't you
think of something more original?"
5) Optional: Say "Hey, do you have email? Good. Write
it down here..."
...and pay attention to the difference.
If you really "play it up", you'll notice a HUGE
difference between the first five women you talk to
and the next five.
During the first set of five, when you're being
a "Nice Wuss", you'll see the looks on the women's
faces that say "Oh, no. Another guy who "likes" me.
How can I get rid of him politely?..."
During the SECOND set of five, you'll see the women
opening their mouths with the "half smile, half oh-no-
you-didn't-just-say-that look". You'll feel a TENSION
in the air. You'll notice that some of the women will
actually look at you as if they can't believe what
they're hearing.
If you're particularly sharp and funny, you might
just have one or two of them say "I like you... we
have to hang out sometime" within the first few minutes
of the conversation. You will NEVER hear that when
you're playing the "Nice Wuss", by the way.
(SIDE NOTE: I went out with some friends once, and
I was taking pictures of some of my friends... when
I overheard this girl talking to her friend. I took
what she and her friend were talking about, and I teased
her about it... and within no more than 60 seconds
the girl was saying "Ohmygod, I like you! We need to
hang out sometime...". Really.)
Do your homework! And have FUN while you're at it.
...and by the way. If you haven't downloaded your
copy of my eBook, and ordered your ZERO RISK copy of my
Advanced Series, then get to it...
You'll learn more in a few hours of studying my
materials than most guys will learn in their whole
LIVES about how to attract women.
Both come with an "offer you can't refuse", and
I'm serious...
You can try them at zero cost... nothing.
If you're not thrilled, and you don't meet more
women, you don't have to pay a dime.
You can download the eBook here right now:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProducts.com/10...
