Would you still talk to him or her?

I have this guy that i talk to. Hes really nice and i can really relate to him, hes like the guy i been looking for, for awhile. He has alot going for him, i mean he got alot of talents and all that good stuff. Anyway We were talking to each other for awhile and the last time i was talking to him he tells me that hes not exactly single and he has a 4 month old kid. Im blown away by this but im also confused i asked him why he waited so long to tell me about his son cause it sounds like he was kind of ashamed that he has a kid anyway he tells me he didnt think i woud still talk to him if he told me. I told him he couldn't blame me cause like he said hes not exactly single. I starting taking in consideration that i could still talk to him then he decides hes going to tell me that hes not single at all and that he lives with his baby's mom. I argued with myself about whether i should still talk to him or not. I mean there are so many consequences that come along with talkin to him. I mean i will never ever fight over no guy thats out of the question. He told me that he was going to leave soon because things arent going good he's just waiting to save up some money to get out. I asked him was he expecting me to wait? He had the nerve to say yeah but the point is that i need to know should i talk to him still i mean as friends, cause the whole dating thing is gone with the wind i mean i dont want drama coming my way about messing with some other girl's man and stuff like that i mean thats just not my scene. Would ya'll still talk to him or her if ya'll where in the same situation? Is it worth the drama or should i just leave it alone? What would you do?