Black Men
Are there any men out there these days that don't just want s*x? Are there any successful black men that know what they want out of life and aren't looking for the next chick that will give it up easy? Are there any black men out there that don't already have kids and looking for someone else that don't have kids so that they can start a family together, instead of dealing with custody situations and drama? Are there any true black men out there that don't tell a whole lot of lies and play games? Good black men seem to very scarce these days, I just need to know if there are any still out there.
Re: Black Men
There are professional brothers out there, but your chance sistah girl of finding one without any kids is slim-remember there are more Black men in prision than in a college classroom-that's 1 million Black XY in prision and less than that in college! To be honest you are on point about men just wanting s*x easy-hey I say if you are serious about your craft-what is that you want to do with your life and you can exhibit professionalism and motivation for your significant other-it shouldn't matter if they have kids or not-as long as you two are happy and he is trying to handle his business-brothers need sistahs who are encouraging, motivating and inspiring....a good person period is scarce, but you limit yourself by thinking that you can only have kids with him-do you know that there are so many sistahs who are single moms-who work hard every day, but are stigmatized by folks like you who say-they only want kids by them-meaning they would have to turn their backs on their children for a woman or vice versa-I would never do that! If there is true love then his kids are yours and vice versa!
Sincerely, trying to school you-not rule you!