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What yo man should do for you

Aundrea Nance · Saturday, June 24th 2006 at 5:42PM · 285 views
GIRLS LIKE GUYS TO...
1-touch their waist
2-talk to them
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss them slowly
6-hug them
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when your with your friends
11-smile with her
12-take pics with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. fight back
15-when her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she cant get to her friends. it makes her feel loved
16-always hug her and say i love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-hug her from behind around the waist
19-tell her she beautiful not s*xy!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!
21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. you buy HER stuff
23-TELL HER WHAT FEELS GOOD
24-make her feel loved
25-buy them stuff. like small things can still help
26-don't lie to her
27-dont cheat on her
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt messege her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even though she doesn't need you juss be there so she'll know that she can always count on you

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Comments (11)

Kellen Hunter Saturday, June 24th 2006 at 11:06PM

This **** is on point..........even though i know the vast majority of this thanks for keepin us men updated!

Chris Sterling Sunday, June 25th 2006 at 11:57AM

ayo this real tru but u forgot something #31 Never to afraid to let others know how u feel about her. Just something i know helpin u out a bit not like u need it

L D Horne Sunday, June 25th 2006 at 6:43PM

Actually, what a woman wants is all up for debate. Women differ and are as unique as fingerprints. What is good to one woman, may not necessarily float the other's boat. Some women don't like their man all up under them. Some women aren't affecionate. Don't get me wrong, your list is admirable (kinda cute too--LOL ni66a said cute). What a woman wants IMO is for her man to be receptive to what she wants. However, those wants have to be communicated whether it is via body language or verbals. Take your list for example: you have demonstrated your wants, desires and your hierarchy of needs--a perfect example of how you should express your standards.

I do have to disagree with #19 and 22.

#19 There are "times" when you need to let your woman know she is s*xy. I'm not saying that you should say it all the time. "Dayum, You s*xy gurl!" LOL You just have to have a little excitement. Let her know that she IS the s*xiest woman in the world.

#22 Chivalry isn't dead; but, we are in 2006 and men and women can treat one another. I have lady friends who switch back and forth with me on the bill when we go out. I think that --ish is tight. It makes me feel like I am not the only one interested and that she is not a gold digger. I'm not saying it's okay for a man to ask a woman to buy him something. This holds the same as women shouldn't ask men to buy them anything. Gifts should come freely from a partner's heart, not from the fact that the other partner asked. I think that is the direction you were headed. "Send her roses just because." Well, send him a card or a rose just because.

Good Blog

Take care,
Damon

Aundrea Nance Sunday, June 25th 2006 at 8:02PM

ok mr. lawrence or damon whoever you are thank you your criticism but i'm just expressin' my beliefs.If you look at this you would see that it is full of opinion so i really don't see what the big deal was. then you changin sides by sayin all what you thought was bad on my part then changed up by sayin "good blog"but everyone is entitled to their opinion. Thank you but no thank you~Aundrea

Tiffany Burgess Sunday, June 25th 2006 at 10:32PM

i love this list i think it is so right. It's perfect! Everything I can think of is on it. I would love if my boyfriend did everyone of these things. I think I am going to print it out and put it in his house but make it look like its his sister's, just so he can read it.

Tiffany Burgess Sunday, June 25th 2006 at 10:33PM

I would like to find out what the guy's list is.

Kamilah Henry Sunday, June 25th 2006 at 11:20PM

I like this. I plan on doing what Tiffany is going to do, except I'm just going to forward it to him! He always tells me what guys like and say that I'm not forward with him, so hey...thanks for making the list, girl!....Kam

L D Horne Tuesday, June 27th 2006 at 3:47AM

I am lost. What’s the attitude for? I did not criticize your blog. Not only did I exalt you for your forward nature, I praised you for “listing” your wants and desires and noted that your list is a PRIME example of what to do: Communicate your desires, wants and needs. Here’s the excerpt:

“Take your list for example: you have demonstrated your wants, desires and your hierarchy of needs--a perfect example of how you should express your standards.”

However, I did disagree with two points on your list (2 outta 30!?!? OMFG). Disagreement is not criticism, ma’am. I put my “spin” on those two. RHETORICAL QUESTION: “Are blogs meant to provide discussion and different points of views?” I guess not on your page. When I said you had a good blog, I meant it. You are being argumentative for no reason at all. You spoke your peace—now I spoke mine.

Very Respectfully,
Damon

Oh, and by the way, That’s spelled La”U”rence but my friends call me Damon.

Aundrea Nance Tuesday, June 27th 2006 at 12:20PM

Baby i'm sorry if i misinterpret what you wrote on my page--you are allowed to express your opinion as i am with the blog. I am truly sorry about the misunderstanding.

The Writer of the Blog,
Aundrea "Drea"Nance

L D Horne Tuesday, June 27th 2006 at 2:10PM

S'all good, mami. Honestly, I can apologize to you too (I'm sorry) because there were items that could have been misinterpreted. I read what I said the other day and some of my verbiage could be taken one way or the other. I know you didn't ask for me to do this, but I will give you a breakdown on what I meant.

"Don't get me wrong, your list is admirable (kinda cute too--LOL ni66a said cute)." Here I was making fun of myself b/c men don't say cute. I like the cutesie (****, said cute again--I am gonna lose my playa card LOL) stuff that you talked about. Heck, and add wrestling (that's kool), tickle tourture, washing the car (then water fight) add all that. (My card has been revoked)

We are saying the same thing. (incomming flirt--gotta redeem myself LOL) I wish I could have seen you when you typed that 1st rebuttal tho. I bet you looked "s*xy" when you were mad. *joke*

Later, Drea
Damon

WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III Tuesday, June 27th 2006 at 10:00PM

I like this.

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