Sick of being lonely

Girl, just chill. You know you don't want to be in a relationship with the wrong man at the wrong time. When you start rushing things they only turn out bad. So JUST CHILL! I promise a good man will come into your life when you least expect it. God is only looking out for you. He has someone special for you and doesn't want any ordinary man messing up His precious jewel. Be patient. A man will be seeking you and you won't have to do anything for him to like you more. He will like you for who you are! I hope this advice helps. Be Blessed!

Here's a male perspective: I too feel lonely. I often believe that I am destined to be alone for the rest of my days. Each time I get into a relationship or meet someone with potential, I end up leaving to another state or around the other side of the planet. Oh, well. Anywho, most of you sistahs seem to have your priorities in order. KUDOS!! Here's a little something for the sistahs who don't.

Lookin For the Right One

On numerous occasions I get to hear
How there are no good men left out there
That we either married, dogs or taken
Or we are on the DL and fakin’
See, I have a lot of female friends
Who’ve let their man dog them to the end
And then all men get placed
In the proverbial position of disgrace
I’ve often heard he’s too nice?
LMAO WTF is too nice?
Oh, I see—you require drama
You like that liar with five baby mamas
Or I guess a ni66a must have the propensity to slap a bytch
Sistah girl is that ni66a worth it?
See I noticed a few things as I grew
That you treat them like gold when they bad to you

On numerous occasions I get to hear
How there are no good men left out there
There are hardworking brothas who are blue collar
Not given a chance to holla
Cuz some professional sistahs snub their noses and revel
Because they are not on the same educational level
But what about spiritual, emotional, intellectual
How about this brotha who is effectual
Or fervent in his endeavors to do
Anything possible he can for you
That great brotha who’d if he could
Give you the sun the moon the mountains he would
What about the guy who’s been your friend
You know the one who you refuse to begin
A relationship with because he’s like a brother
Didn’t you know friends make the best lovers?

On numerous occasions I get to hear
How there are no good men left out there
What about the guy who has no game
Just average Joe is his name
He’s nice, intelligent and aiight lookin
But when you see him on the street you keep on bookin
To your destination that thug ni66a
Who gives you elation that thug ni66a
Well, ladies can you figure—you can’t change this man
“Oh he’ll come around—I understand”
Yeah right,
He ****in you now, but who he with tonight??
If that’s not the case
One Time is coming to search your place

On numerous occasions I get to hear
How there are no good men left out there
Baby girl, where are you lookin for them
The library, church, school you’ll find him
But where do you go to find love?
9 outta 10 times in the club
Then again, you can’t find love, love finds you
But rushing destiny is what many do
But you gonna take matters into your own hands
Then that’s when you miss out on the man
That God planned for you or you make the mistake
Of being with so many wrong men it’s too late
Cuz now you are burnt out and used
Emotionally and or physically abused

On numerous occasions I get to hear
How there are no good men left out there
There are women who see married men
And don’t care that it’s a sin
Who believe this man is gonna leave
To go with them—abandoning their families
Get a clue sister
Cuz Mr. ain’t gonna take you—see
Why buy the cow when the milk is free?

So next time you traverse down the street
Be mindful of the men you meet
Be cautious of the company you keep
The most unlikely candidate may be the one to sweep
You off your feet.

We will find our soulmates. We just need patience.