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Sista, First thing:
Don't settle for anything less than what YOU want. If you want a man that has what you have, then don't even get into a s*xual relationship with a brotha that is unemployed! Unless you just want someone to grow with and love you. Let God give you what he has for you. In college I was kicked out but went on to a better future. Today, 11yrs later I own a management company that my wife God blessed me with, gave me the encouragement to start. I manage six companies from one office. Let him that is always for you, lead you to what he already created for you. Don't look, let it be shown! Keep your head up, and as soon as you think no one will come, that's when God will let the two of you "bump" into one another.
One Love!

Pray Jeremiah 33:3,6.
Also change Your circles, I am intimidated by no woman as well as quite a few Men I know.
My standing ovation for what You are Aspiring and Endeavoring to do in Life.
I do not disagree with Your point, I feel You and agree.
Feel free to read my past blog on "How Men Should Treat Women. I'm a Libran and tackle all sides of the relations issues and include myself as well...

I don't know about the intimidation issue. But haven't the rules changed? I may just be too old fashion, but seems like it's ok to entertain relationship dynamics that weren't an issue 10 years ago. I don't know what to tell you. Post it when you figure it out.