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Friend or Foe...I mean HOE?

Friend or Foe...I mean HOE?

Kiah Shani Rodriguez · Thursday, April 7th 2005 at 12:14AM · 605 views
I have a friend that I have been cool with since the 7th grade. She is a hoe! Flat out! She has s*x with alot of people despite the fact that she has a boyfriend. In MS and HS, she was always just an "acquaintance", so to say! But now, in college me and her (plus two other girls) are the only from my HS, so we hang out more. Which means what she does effects me more. I see qualities in her that I don't like and don't want to be her friend. And to top it off, when I try to tell her about herself as a FRIEND, she jumps on my case saying things that people who are supposed to be friends shouldn't say to each other. It seems as if I'm maturing, and she isn't...or not as fast, anyway. Am I bad for not wanting to be her friend anymore?

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Darryl D. Smith Thursday, April 7th 2005 at 1:28PM

You need to just sit her down and have a LONG talk. Tell her EXACTLY what you don't like. If she don't listen, do what Adam said...distance yourself away from her until she learns her lesson...

De'Sha McCurdy Tuesday, May 17th 2005 at 5:08PM

Kiah, I know who your talking about and i think you should let the friendship rest for a while. If you want to be friends or if you two should be friends, sooner or later she'll come around and thank you for your advice but untill then you need to move on girl and live your life. God puts people in your life for a reason and you may not know that reason now but as the years past you'll come to find that either she helped you or you helped her. All in all, continue to do you the way you want to! Love ya girly, I'll holla

WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III Thursday, December 15th 2005 at 7:48PM

Just ask Jeremiah 33:3

WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III Thursday, December 15th 2005 at 8:03PM

Just ask Jeremiah 33:3
This is a deep question that only You, her and "God" know the most about.
Friends are as close or closer than family.
Do You love her, the Bible states many cases of not being unevenly yoked, "Jesus" hung with sinners, how are you coming off on her (respectfully) etc.
I am willing to bet that she has been molested or raped in years past and is acting out those behaviors with low self esteem and shame as fuel via satan.
I have lived a certain way also and those who truly loved me stuck by, I am a different person to do, chalk it up to maturation, grace, learning experiences via trials and tribulations etc. No one is perfect albeit some flaws stick out more than others.
It is so true know one knows unless in the same shoes. I played the game to fit in and be accepted, but there is still choice and the choices we make we reap them good or bad.
This is why I say just ask.
According to the person we all have advice to give, 99.9% are well meaning but only the "Father knows the best route. I can tell You to run 5 miles for a solution. That may work for me but 1 mile works best for You.
I guess You have to dwell and think of the affects upon You, the costs of this friendship etc.
Without knowing the person, the situations etc. it is difficult to assess the best solution.
I really like what *Tawana* has to say.
Hope this helps for the 2cents worth.

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