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Real Women WHERE ARE YOU...

James Hathorn · Wednesday, April 5th 2006 at 10:37AM · 321 views
Over the past 2 yrs(college) i have been lookin, which i think is the problem, for a real woman or atleast a good one...It seems that I only attract BOPPERS AND GOLDIGGERS....I'm not sure if that is because of my major and they see dollar signs or what...but I am not at all interested in that type of woman. I have had one REAL love in my life and its pretty hard not comparing her to everyone i meet. she is still better that half of the females i meet and she cheated on me!...well idk what to think i am just gonna stop looking b/c the boppers always seem to find me

WHERE ARE THE REAL WOMEN??????

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Rachelle Harris Wednesday, April 5th 2006 at 12:04PM

There are real women out there! But you can't compare every female to your ex. Just keep your head up and be able to acknowledge a real women, when she presents herself to you.

Ashley Davis Wednesday, April 5th 2006 at 3:48PM

Honey you can't go out lookin for love and think it will be true. Sometimes you just have to be content with the way ur life is heading and love will definitely find a way. You can't run from your heart but you can't have false hopes and expectations. Let nature take its course. The real love that you need will find you!

Tiffany Marshall Wednesday, April 5th 2006 at 9:33PM

Hey James. It's so nice of you to post such a blog. im sure you knew you would get a lot of feedback. there are GREAT WOMEN in this world. you and I are in the same situation. i thought my ex was the 'IT' and he found someone else. i'd always compare other males to him, but i had to stop because that creates unhealthy relations between you and your new partner. just take it easy. and you dont have to LOOK 2 find 'that 1'

Amecia Nichell Wednesday, April 5th 2006 at 9:53PM

There are still a lot of real women out here, don't give up. But you have to try not to compare every female you meet to your ex-girlfriend. No one is perfect, everyone has their faults. It may take time but you'll meet that special girl one day.

Marjorie Robinson Thursday, April 6th 2006 at 8:08AM

you'll find her. don't worry. "wink"

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Jacquea Olday Thursday, April 6th 2006 at 8:11AM

I think you should not have to look for the right woman. I believe she will come to you when you are ready. Because if looking was the case, a lot of women would be alone right now. Millions of people look. But maybe the woman you yearn for might be right in front of you. So look, to an extent. Good Luck. Peace & Love

Darryl D. Smith Thursday, April 6th 2006 at 3:08PM

I feel you on this man. Sometimes you think you found the one you loving, and they turn out to be the not-so-good experience. Just keep searching man. Ask God to help you out. Remember, a good woman's heart is hidden inside the Word, so the good man will seek it out...

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