For my boys (girls too)
I need u guys' opinion. So there's this dude i've been talkin to for about two or three months but we never hooked up. He's real nice and he likes me and i learned to like him but i only saw him in person like two times. He's in school and i'm and school so frequently our schedules conflict leaving the weekends for the only time we can hook up. Even though we hardly see eachother, dude calls me like everyday and i know girls don't mind gettin wit him cause he ain't ugly at all so i know either he really likes me or at least it seems like he does. Basically i don't really wanna talk to him anymore because other dudes are coming around now . I jus wanna know the easiest let him go? Should i be straight up or tell him i'm a lesbian? I playin about the lesbian part but i feel like i he might be mad and/or sad if i tell him its because i am startin to like other dudes...Yea i don't kno help me
Just tell him the truth. It'll save you and him a whole lot of drama if you just let him know what's up. Most dudes would rather just hear the truth and they know where to go from there. The lesbian thing wouldn't help anyone. Just let him know what it is.