Baby Daddy Drama

I dont understand why men just won't take care of their children. why do they give only a minimum amount of money to cloth, feed, and provide for their children. Then if the mother takes him to court for child support she's a golddigger. i didn't get myself pregnant and the baby lives with me. one would think that since i have most....all of the responsibilty for his well being his damn daddy would help me more.i'm real tired of it. i go to school and go to work as much as i can during the little free time i do have and i'm still struggling while he's still out there doing whatever he does." i work. why don't you get a jobbecause i'm not supporting you?"That's what this fool be thinking, i know it. Supporting me.... how was i surving before i had his baby.And it's not like he don't have a good secure job. There is no reason why he not acting better than he is, but im waiting it out. I'm going to see if he start acting better because the love and respect and still have for him hasn't run out yet. but to all my black men out there....TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS.