Superstar Black Women

*as written by kevin chappell*

What would happen if we treated the lady in our life like a superstar? What if
we were her biggest fan, her biggest supporter? What if we let go of our
inhibitions and macho pretends and displayed a love for her that knew no
bounds, exhibited a shamelss passion, zeal and enthusiasm for her that couldnt be
questioned?

What if we screamed with unbridled joy everytime she walked into the room? (Sike)
just kidding lol but really, when u think about it, could it be that many of the
heartaches and headaches that we encounter in our relationships are a direct
result of our lack of regard for our lady? Indeed some of us are guilty of
treating our significant other like our"insignificant" other treating the love
of our life as if she was, well, just another lady. We do this, even though
inside we know she is a good woman.instead of considering ourselves fortunate to
have her, too often we have the "she's lucky to have me" mentality, a twisted view
of relationships that is held by many brothers. A view that prevents us from
opening up, and prevents us from living and loving at the level that we are
capable of. Relationships are all about give and take, care and concern, treating
a lady like a superstar starts with treating her with respect, caring about her
well being and happiness showing her that she matters, it means being faithful to
her, honest with her, being there for her.
It means going that extra mile to show her ur thinking about her. It is said that
women are the great reciprocators. The way u treat them is the way u will be
treated in return...

*and Vice Versa*