Ladies How You Feel About This?
Why is it more accepting for black women to date outside their race, but not black men;why is there a problem? Maybe because America symbolizes beauty of a woman as being blonde hair and blue eyes. I can understand a black woman being with her man through the struggle to become successful, and they made it together, but are black women mad because black men leave their black women when they become successful and the man starts dating outside their race. I'm a universalist and color doesn't matter to me, but I don't like to be called a sell out by my race if I decide to date another nationality. You can't get caught up with; you need to stay with your own kind because it causes devision, and it's going against Maritn Luther King Jr's dream. I judge people by character, and whoever I am attracted to I will date. So, Ladies why do black women get upset when they see a black man with another nationality?
The male to female ratio in the Black community is like 10 females to every 1 male. Okay now take into account that of those ten men, you need to account for the ones that are gay, on drugs or in prison. So let's move that ratio back to 25 females for every 1 male. So to know that there aren't very many quality black men available, then for the few that are often chose to date outside of our race. That is what is upseting as a female looking for a quality man. As a man, I am sure you won't see it this way, because you have the pick of the litter. LOL. But seriously, black women may end out dating outside of their race due to the fact that there are not many black men as choices. E