dont shut me out!!!
so my friend that i experienced the major critical thing on sunday morning i think is shutting me out....like he hasnt called since monday and when i did talk to him he kept it short and sweet like he would be like ima call u back and he never would and thatz not like him like he always calls me back and we always talk but now i think he is shutting me out and i feel that we both experienced something that no one should ever have to go through and im not getting n-e support or help dealing with this from him......my friends r like maybe he is dealing with it but just not showing u and im like ok maybe im paranoid so i decided not to call him to see if im trippin and he has yet to even call me ya know......i really hope that i am paranoid cuz he is a really good friend and i dont wann loose him
I don't know the full situation. I believe he is staying away from you to avoid saying something he will regret. Alot of times men try to not to say what is on the mind to not cost a great relationship. The only thing you can do is try to get back to the normal friend relationship level. Once you two can laugh together then his defenses are down and you two can dicuss the problem with a calm mind. To him the problem is unneeded stress and its important to give him a cooling off period. Good Luck
-LDOT