Hmmm

You should stop focusing on what men want and focus on getting yourself together. Don't take this as me talking down to you...let me explain my comment. When a man sees a woman working towards bettering herself academically and socially he will do the same because he knows that if he doesn't, he'll miss out on a great thing. So I say work on yourself because during that process, you'll weed out the men who ain't about nothing and find one you can connect with on all levels.

I know exactly what you mean. It seems that when the guys come here, they start to loose their minds! Because there is nothing to do, it is nice to have a male friend but its hard when they are giving mix signals. Something will come along when you least expect it.