For my ladies FYI

I can't tell you how many time I hear females complain about their baby daddy or boyfriends. The problem is some females are desperate for a man, and they feel like life is empty without a man in there life. First off, I'm tired of hearing "I wish I can find a good man." A good man can be seating across from you, but you won't recognize that he is there because he might not have a car, money to fulfill your needs, popularity etc. If you take time out to evaluate what you want in a man then the others will filter out, and one man will be standing to sweep you off your feet. The problem with females they confide in their friends about there relationship not knowing their friends might be jealous. If people see other people happy they try to still their joy by making up lies and by giving bad information. Relationships shouldn't be based of status and materialistic items. If you choose a thug, he might have money, but it's wrong money. If you chose a pretty boy, you are asking to be cheated on if he has a status on campus or in his location. The brother in the library trying to get his stuff together is the one who will still stand when the dust blows away. If you do get a brotha like that treat him right, and you might have a healthy relationship. Women self evaluate yourself and tell a brotha what you want out of a relationship before you make it concrete. The pain of an opposite s*x is the worse pain. And please, if you going to make a baby make sure it's with someone you want to be with; and make sure they are responsible. Relationships are not for personal gain, it's for the experience of love and happiness.