Confused... Please help

trust me the best thing to do is break it off!!!...me and my dude had some serious trust issues before i went off to jail and we broke if off....if u even think that u cant stay faithfull to him while ur away at college then ur probably not gonna be faithful so to me the best bet is to break it off cuz if u dont and u do cheat that leads to lying if u dont wanna tell him and then u will get caught up in a web of lies...trust me i know!!!

oops i meant to say college...lol me in jail plz!!!

I know.. And I need to anyway, that is break it off... We have been through so much, and I stayed taking him back. I know I need to do what i need to do for me and that's it....

I feel in my opinion you should break it off with him and just be friends, only because you will be miserable when you get to college and you wont be able to experience the college life the way you should. I mean even if you did stay with him your communication would be limited you wouldn't be able to act out your title(as his girl) because he wouldn't be there to act out his part. In my eyes it would just be a title of a relationship you would just have the title of being his girlfriend. I mean if he wasn't in jail that would be a different subject because he can still come and see you and all that good stuff but when your in jail your sort of limited to the things you want and can do. I feel friends would be the best out come i mean say if the guy you feeling now doesn't work out and you soon graduate and hes out of jail you will still have some connection with him to maybe pick up where you left off or restart what you have with no flaws because you been there and done that. I think friends would be the best outcome.
Im out
Shonda

lol break it off now mah...and u already feelin sumbody at ya school, itza WRAP !!!

I agree with everyone else in saying that you should definately break it off with him now! I mean, you're already interested in someone else from your school's orientation, so that's a sign right there that you need to break it off soon. You're better off doing that now instead of starting college, possibly cheating on him and maybe lying to him or being deceitful in another way. To top it off, ya boy's in jail anyway so that makes it extra difficult for him to even visit you. Even if he wasn't in jail it might be difficult for him to come and visit you - you never know. Plus, long distance relationships are very, very hard. I've been there myself and it didn't work out! I mean, everyone's relationship is different, but most of the time the long distance thing doesn't work! I think you should just be friends with him. Or if you're both not ready to be friends at first, maybe acquaintances til' you can both deal with just being friends. You're better off ending things on a smooth note rather than a bad note later on down the line. Like I said before, you never know what might happen. You and him might be able to start anew later on and you might end up getting back together. Don't just stay in the relationship cause you feel obligated to do so. Save both yourself and him heartache and pain before it's too late.

How long is he in for??? And you already said you feeling someone thats at your school your attention wont be on him. trust me i was in that situation before.

hey.... I'm with everyone else. you might as well break up with him. I think that it would be for the best. Espeically if you already into somebody at the school. I kinda understand how you feel. I will be leaving for school next week in Florida and my boyfriend will be in Chicago.

OK FIRST YOU HAVE TO LOOK AT THIS MAN, AND SEE IF HE'S TRYING TO DO SOMETHING WITH HIS LIFE LIKE BETTER HIMSELF LIKE YOU ARE IF NOT I THINK YOU SHOULD LET GO, BECAUSE YOU DONT NEED ACCESS BAGGAGE AT THIS POINT IN YOUR LIFE. PLUS COLLEGE IS SUPPOSE TO BE A TIME THAT YOU ENJOY YOURSELF IT'S SUPPOSE TO BE THE BEST YEARS OF YOUR LIFE, SO THINK ABOUT IT. I THINK YOU SHOULD LET GO. OH YEAH AND IF YOU WHERE FEELING MARK ROGERS NO HATING HE'S NO GOOD MA MUCH LUV 1

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ms.peierce..... now you know damn well that you need to break that off. for one if you dont think you will be able to be faithful then stop it. you dont want to break his heart. Secondly by him being in jail ummm... He cant do anything for you. So dont be confused. ... See you in a few days ... SAffiyah