Just as important

in my opinion, i think that some dont. i was going out with this one guy and it was serious. untill i found out that the only reason he was messing around with me was because i was and still a virgin. it was a bet for $700 because i was one of the few female senior virgins or the "FFSV'S." some guys look for the one that they care about and then some guys dont. most guys put on a front (from what im told) because the people they hang around with talk about who they've been with........most of whom are lying. Believe me i know. People talk and half the football and basketball teams at my school are my cousins so they tell me who they do it with and stuff. they tell me that the girls actually believe whatever the guys tell them just to get into their panties.

im not sayin that all guys are like that, lord knows that there are some good guys out there who are trying to spit their game but loosing your virginity is a big deal and the only reason why i havent done anything is because of guys like him. now and days, you cant trust people. u have to be very careful. to the guys, know that a girls virginity is like air to her. once you take it away, thats it and its gone. to the girls who are still virgins, stay in there. i know its hard with all that temptation but stick it out and hopefully the right guy will come around.

I am not a boy but I've grown up with boys and lived in an all boy neighborhood for almost twelve years. What I noticed is the whole s*x concept is based on the individual person. Its come to a point where you can't really break it up into "girls this" and "boys that". Some people don't take it seriously and others do. I know males and females who started intercourse in the 5th grade, and I know males and females that are in GRAD SCHOOL and are STILL virgins. So it's safe to say, it really depends on the person, and not the "gender"

I don't think so... I mean, I am not saying they are just running around poking anything... But I think when it comes to women it is so much more important. You want that person to be someone you love and some you can be comfy around. Women want that moment to be special, and a moment that you will always, always remember. I don't think men really care about where it's at, when, why they doing it, and who's it with...