Looking for love is too Hard

I agree....falling in love is so much different than looking for it, but I see where you're comin' from. Sometimes you just long for that warm fuzzy feeling that you get when you see that special person smile, hear their laugh, or kiss their lips. But it feels so much better when it happens naturally. Sometimes we get so caught up in wanting that feeling that we psych ourselves into feeling it, or begin to believe that what we want to be love, or what looks like love...is love. But most times, it isn't. And that's what hurts the most....disappointment. Don't worry, she may not be in the package that you're looking for. She may be right under your nose, or on her way into your life. But whatever God has for you is for you....and it'll be special. BE PATIENT.
Kisses...
*Janine*

well, let me say this, ty.... you maybe look'n at tha situation all wrong. i mean, tha way someone looks doesn't determine their intellectual ability. i, for one, know that...trust. sometime, from what i've experienced, tha guy is only look'n at what u work'n with and doesn't want to take tha time to hold a conversation to see what kind of female they deal'n wit'. you'll find that woman, just as sure as i'll find that man...feel me.

maybe if you stop looking you'll find it. a girl can usually sense if you are rushing into a relationship or trying to make yourself fall in love. love comes natural. give it time it will come