accidently pregnant

Yes Shonda, Tell her Mom to take her to the Clinic ASAP it's important and by the information you are telling us it does sound like she might be Pregnant for real!!!!

Definately, take her to the clinic first. Make sure that she is, in fact, pregnant. Regardless of the results, you both need to go to her mother. Her mother is a vital person in her life at this time, she needs that realtionship stronger so that if anything like this ever happens again (God forbid) she will feel comfortable talking to her mother. Its wonderful that you are trying to be of help, but with all your worrying, you need to be relaxing. (Didn't someone tell you to sit down and breath shonda?). I pray that all goes well with your cousin. Oh yeah, she's a freshman and she's 16?

She had to know what she was doing but she probaly is easily persuaded. She is young and the dude is older so there aint no tellin what went on. He should have know to use a c*ndom if he didnt, but more than likely he didnt if she didnt know if he had one on or not.

i think u should take her to a clinic first, i know here that they have pregnancy crisis centers that give free pregnancy tests and afterwards whether or not the girl is pregnant, they give classes on either how to become a mother or how not to become one. i used to go, its fun actually there are lots of girls involved who can share the problems they go through (taking care of a child, STDs, and how hard it is) it might help her to go to the center........just some advice. but i think you definetly SHOULD NOT tell her mother, that is her place to tell...it will only cause drama...TRUST ME...if she is pregnant let her tell her mother in due time and dont pressure her to tell. she'll do it when she feels confident. if she's not pregnant, buy her some c*ndoms and talk to her about MAKING SURE the dude has it on

Yeah i know ya'll wondering why she's a high school freshmen at the age of 16 but she started school late cause of when her birthday and then her mom held her back because she felt she didn't learn what she needed to that year. Her mom is big on education and our school system isn't the best but she can't afford to send her kids to private school so she held her back a grade.

Definately take her to the clinic first before you tell her mother. If it turns out that she is not pregnant then continue to school her on boys and how to protect herself. But, if she is then just let her know that you will be there for her when she feels that no one else will.

Please take her to a clinic and fast, i think you should wait before telling her mother cause that would save some of the drama, but if it turns out that she is pregnant definitely get her mom involved because she needs her help and most of all her guidance, if she is not pregnant please continue to ephasis the importance of protection! Good luck and i hope for the best for your cousin, you and you alls family

she def knew what she was doing. take her to the clinic first to find out wat's up, then tell her mom