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Jasmine Butler · Monday, July 25th 2005 at 9:43PM · 457 views
I have a dilemma...... I have a boyfriend that I love and I am committed too, yet I have these feelings for another guy that's going to my school that i met over hbcu. I talk to the guy on the phone and stuff and we semm to really click. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend b/c of another guy. That's trifiling. Like I know that me and the guy have a somewhat strong connection but I know thats he's out of bounds.....and he's in the same situation with his girlfriend. What are we to do? PLease help!

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Crystal Rhodes Monday, July 25th 2005 at 10:49PM

first . . .have u stopped to pray about it?? God places people in our lives to show us what He wants us to see. It could be 1 of 2 things: ur boyfirend is not really 4 u, OR it could be a test of ur faithfulness!
Confusion is of the devil . . . so ask God to rid u of it!!!!
And gurl . . . ur young . . .go wit the flow a little . . . .u & this new guy may become good friends & thats it!! There's nothing wrong with having guy friends other than ur boyfriend!!! Just make sure ur relationship & the people involved are secure enough to handle those circumstances!!!

SHALECIA BRANCH Monday, July 25th 2005 at 10:56PM

IMMA LET U KNOW THAT LAST MONTH I WAS IN THE SAME SITUATION..UNITL I CAME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT IT'S JUST WRONG.ASK GOD FOR GUIDANCE BUT ALSO UR SMART ENOUGH TO FIX THIS YOURSELF...DONT LEAD EACH OTHER ON AS WELL AS YOUR SPOUSES....N E WAY KEEP ME INFORMED GURL LATA...

SIE aka george simons Monday, July 25th 2005 at 11:09PM

what is love




love is no feelings..



stay with your boyfriend


don't watch the guy @hbcu



how would your man react if u told him that u were interested in someone else...


what would u have done if u were married to this same man (( whose your current boyfriend))

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