Hostility walking through the Door
Just when i thought i was over my very first love and the crap he put me and my friend through he comes back. To not only bring up hidden feelings but to break up what i had left of my friendship with one of my closest friends.
It started in 9th grade. I went to a trade school so it had shops and to choose your shop you go on something called exploratory anyway i thought the boy was annoying as hell all he did was bother me. Anyway exploratory last for like a month and each shop i went to he was there bothering me. Anyway i guess the the boy knew my friend tiffany and told her something and when i went home that day the boy called me. To make the long story short he starts telling people were dating and after awhile we really start dating. Anyway things didn't work out and he went his separate ways and i went my separate way the i hear a couple of days later he's dating my new friend camy i didnt really care cause we werent really close friends.
Anyway i hear they break up and the dude calls me back and hes back to the old tricks and bothering me again. Anyway you know im young so i decided to try again and see if it would work. So we doing our thing and we kiss for the first time. I mean when we first went out we didnt kiss but we did this time. Anyway I guess he decided he was going to tell his close friend tiffany and he did and the next thing i know Camy calling me cussing me out and talkin about she going to get me jumped and all that (yeah right that would really happen). I was told she got mad cause the boy never broke up with her and they were still going out. How the hell was i suppose to know?
Anyway Me and Camy got over it and now she is one of my cloest friends the dude left to Ny and wasnt suppose to be coming back for a couple of years. He came back and now im hearing Camy dont want to be my friend no more cause she dating the dude again and she dont want the same thing to happen anymore? I have been over this since it happen like 3 or 4 years ago. I have done bigger and better things now so why cant this be let go why do i have to lose a friend over it?
I tried to talk the whole thing out with them and The dude made it seem like i was trying to get with him and i haven't seen or talk to him for the last 4 years. It was crazy but i lost my friend and i dont know what i should do? Should i let the friendship go? Yall let me know what yall would do in this situation?
Sorry its a long blog but it hurts to lose a friend of 4 years.
Im out
Shonda
It started in 9th grade. I went to a trade school so it had shops and to choose your shop you go on something called exploratory anyway i thought the boy was annoying as hell all he did was bother me. Anyway exploratory last for like a month and each shop i went to he was there bothering me. Anyway i guess the the boy knew my friend tiffany and told her something and when i went home that day the boy called me. To make the long story short he starts telling people were dating and after awhile we really start dating. Anyway things didn't work out and he went his separate ways and i went my separate way the i hear a couple of days later he's dating my new friend camy i didnt really care cause we werent really close friends.
Anyway i hear they break up and the dude calls me back and hes back to the old tricks and bothering me again. Anyway you know im young so i decided to try again and see if it would work. So we doing our thing and we kiss for the first time. I mean when we first went out we didnt kiss but we did this time. Anyway I guess he decided he was going to tell his close friend tiffany and he did and the next thing i know Camy calling me cussing me out and talkin about she going to get me jumped and all that (yeah right that would really happen). I was told she got mad cause the boy never broke up with her and they were still going out. How the hell was i suppose to know?
Anyway Me and Camy got over it and now she is one of my cloest friends the dude left to Ny and wasnt suppose to be coming back for a couple of years. He came back and now im hearing Camy dont want to be my friend no more cause she dating the dude again and she dont want the same thing to happen anymore? I have been over this since it happen like 3 or 4 years ago. I have done bigger and better things now so why cant this be let go why do i have to lose a friend over it?
I tried to talk the whole thing out with them and The dude made it seem like i was trying to get with him and i haven't seen or talk to him for the last 4 years. It was crazy but i lost my friend and i dont know what i should do? Should i let the friendship go? Yall let me know what yall would do in this situation?
Sorry its a long blog but it hurts to lose a friend of 4 years.
Im out
Shonda
